The things that I love the most about my strong-willed six year old are the things that tend to drive me the most insane. Her strong spirit brings me so much joy in life; she knows who she is and isn't afraid to tell you what she wants. However, when what she wants and what she needs are at odds with each other, this is when mom has to step in. I tend to be a very relaxed parent with very few absolute laws in our household. My daughter is empathetic, kind, and amazingly social. She is also stubborn, sassy, and independent. Now, most will say that independence isn't a fault, and it isn't, but when she wants to do age inappropriate things by herself, that is where I have to lay down the law. She is my oldest and the one who made me a mother. She is exactly like me, and that is frustrating. Imagine seeing your own faults that you hate about yourself in this tiny being that you love more than you ever thought possible. A few day to day struggles that we encounter: