Your New Year's Resolution NEEDS To Be Having A New Year's Resolution

Your New Year's Resolution NEEDS To Be Having A New Year's Resolution

It's better to fail than to not try at all.

How many times have you made a New Year’s resolution, but never went through with it? I know that my answer to that is far too many. I've tried it all, too: changing my diet, working out more, being kinder, stop procrastinating. For whatever reason, nothing seems to stick. It always ends up feeling like I'm locked in the same place I've always been, and nothing really ever moves forward. If you’re not like this, and you have truly made a resolution come true, I am in awe of your resolve.

But for the rest of us, after years of telling yourself you’re going to start going to the gym four times a week, making resolutions you know aren’t going to happen to get old. There’s only so many times you can let your own self down before you just give up the jig and comes to terms with the fact that no matter how many New Year's resolutions you make.

If you feel this way, I'm totally with you.

But, then again, isn't better to try and not succeed than to not try at all?

Sure, it is frustrating when you say you're going to do something, and to fervently hope that it does, just for things to not work out how you wished they would have. Sometimes that's just the way the cookie crumbles. On the other hand, though, even when those infamous resolutions don't come to fruition, you are never truly at a loss — deciding on self-improvement is self-improvement in itself, even if it doesn't exactly pan out. Simply choosing to better yourself in some type of way is a great thing. It means you care enough to at least try to be the best version of yourself. Even if you don't get the results you want immediately, or just when you think you will, the fact that you even tried in the first place is what actually matters. Sometimes it takes a few failed attempts to make any sort of change anyways.

Don't give up because it hasn't happened yet. Keep trying because it will.

You might not even notice the change within you because it wasn't the one you were expecting. That's okay, keep trying anyway. Go make that resolution, try your best to succeed. If you don't, at least you don't have to regret not trying at all. New year, new you, even if you don't live up to the expectations you thought you would.

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10 Bible Verses For Thanksgiving

Psalm 34:1

The Thanksgiving season is a time we spend with our loved ones giving thanks for the blessings we are given. Here are 20 Bible verses that remind us of what Thanksgiving is all about:

1) 1 Chronicles 16:34

Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever.

2) Colossians 3:15-17

And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

3) Philippians 4:6

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.

4) Psalm 30:12

That my glory may sing your praise and not be silent. O Lord my God, I will give thanks to you forever!

5) Isaiah 12:4-5

And you will say in that day: “Give thanks to the Lord, call upon his name, make known his deeds among the peoples, proclaim that his name is exalted. “Sing praises to the Lord, for he has done gloriously; let this be made known in all the earth.

6) Hebrews 12:28-29

Therefore, since we receive a kingdom which cannot be shaken, let us show gratitude, by which we may offer to God an acceptable service with reverence and awe; for our God is a consuming fire.

7) Jonah 2:9

But I will sacrifice to You With the voice of thanksgiving. That which I have vowed I will pay Salvation is from the Lord."

8) 1 Timothy 4:4-5

For everything created by God is good, and nothing is to be rejected, if it is received with gratitude; for it is sanctified by means of the word of God and prayer.

9) Psalm 28:7

The Lord is my strength and my shield; My heart trusts in Him, and I am helped; Therefore my heart exults, And with my song I shall thank Him.

10) Psalm 100:4

Enter His gates with thanksgiving, And His courts with praise. Give thanks to Him; bless His name.

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7 Spooktacular Ways To Give Your Halloween Pumpkin A Grown-Up Twist By Incorporating Alcohol

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As you get older, some people may think they're too old to carve a pumpkin for Halloween. Those people are wrong. First reason: it doesn't matter how old or ~mature~ you get, no one is "too old" for Halloween. Second reason: pumpkin kegs are a thing, so there you go. Here are some creative ways to give your jack o' lanterns a little bit of a "grown-up" twist:

1. The pumpkin keg

This one's for all the beer-lovers out there. What's a more festive way to drink beer than drinking straight out of a pumpkin? Also, Halloween is the only time when it's acceptable to drink beer out of a pumpkin, so if you're into that, why not take advantage of it?

2. Painted pumpkins

Life imitates art? For all the less crafty souls out there, painting a pumpkin is 100x easier than carving, and a lot easier to clean up. Also, this makes for adorable, yet ~spooky~ decorations for your Halloween party.

3. Pumpkin wine dispenser

Slap the pumpkin anyone? If someone walked up to me at a party with a whole ass pumpkin and told me to "slap the bag" my basic girl persona would immediately take over and grab that pumpkin with no questions asked. This is obviously much like the pumpkin keg, but for wine lovers.

4. Pumpkin cooler

Nothing says "Halloween" like chilling your alcohol inside a pumpkin.

5. Pumpkin beer holder

Essentially, the same idea as the pumpkin cooler, but with a different technique.

6. Pumpkin punch bowl

Only the realest Halloween fans would drink straight from a pumpkin.

7. Drunk pumpkins

Creative, yet relatable. This pumpkin is also a good reminder to be responsible with your drinking and not get Halloween wasted.

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