Just Because I'm Younger Than You Doesn't Make You More Mature

Just Because I'm Younger Than You Doesn't Make You More Mature

Maturity has nothing to do with age.

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I am a 21-year-old college student. I work for a transportation company where I am the youngest one in my building. So you can imagine that a lot of the time, at first sight, people would think my maturity level is not the greatest.

That is entirely incorrect.

Due to my past and the way I was raised, I've been told by many people that get to know me, that my maturity goes way past my age. That I present myself very well for someone so young. It's been that way my whole life. So when someone speaks to me as if I am a child, because they are the slightest bit older than me, I take it with a grain of salt.

I'm mature enough to realize that, while they think they can speak to me in such a manner, that I will not allow them to speak to me that way. I work very hard in each of the positions I work in (I work 3 jobs) and with every job, I work to my best ability and beyond to prove that I am capable of the position I work.

Why do people think that maturity has to do with age?

To be truthful, maturity really has to do with your morals. Respect, understanding and the capability to listen to others, are all qualities that are needed for a high maturity level. Having a calm state of mind when dealing with tough situations is another. I've seen way too many people, young and old, that whine and cry whenever things don't go their way. That's not mature. It doesn't matter if you are 14 or 62 if you don't work for what you want, expect it to get handed to you and then complain when things don't go your way, you are immature.

If someone that is of a younger age than you, whether it is a two-year difference or a 15-year difference, is in charge of you, you listen. You respect them and treat them with the same level of respect that they give you. Not only because they are your boss or higher up, but because we are humans and humans deserve to be treated with respect.

At 19 I was given a position where I was in charge of a group of people I worked with. All ranging from 16 to 40. It baffled me that the ones older than me were the ones to disregard any task given. They would ignore my authority and do whatever they thought to be right. Within time, I made my point clear that I was given my position for a reason. I work hard and I know what I'm doing and what my team should be doing to get the job done effectively. If they didn't want to follow that, they could speak with the higher up from me.

The point being is that age has nothing to do with someone's work ethic, maturity level, or even intelligence. It's all in what people take in on their day to day lives. Are there things that 40-year-old's know more about than I do? Absolutely. Are there things that 16-year-old's know more about than I? Yes.

But there are also things that I have more knowledge on then both of those age groups. It's all about experience. And, while an older generation has experienced more, they haven't experienced the same as I. Just like I haven't experienced all the same of that younger than me.

No matter what the age, race, or gender, be mature and respect each other.

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I'm A Christian Girl And I'm Not A Feminist, Because God Did Not Intend For Women To Be Equals

It is OK for me to not want to be equivalent with a man.

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To start off, I am not writing this to bash feminists or get hate messages. I am simply writing this to state why I do not perceive myself as a feminist.

March is International Women's Month and that is what has got me thinking about how I view myself as a young woman in the 21st century. I enjoy every day getting to soak up the world as a young lady, particularly in the South.

If you know me, then you know that I love and utterly adore Jesus. He is so perfect. He is everything. He is my whole life. Some people might say that I am a "Bible-thumper" or someone who has had too much Kool-aid and maybe I am, but I know who my Creator is and that He died for me, and that is all that matters.

In my young age, I loved to just sit in church with my parents and absorb all that God would deliver. As I have grown up, I have ventured off and joined a church that is different than my parents, so the responsibility falls more on me, but I love that. Since this era of independence began, I have thoroughly enjoyed taking ownership of my faith.

I spend a lot of time chatting with God, worshipping Him in all kinds of ways, and just diving deeper into His Word. Through all of this growth as a Christian, I have learned a lot, but something I have learned is a concept that some may not agree with, which does not surprise me.

I do not believe God meant for women and men to be equal.

There, I acknowledged the elephant in the room.

It is a shocker, I know, but I have some Biblical evidence to back up this belief that I have.

Let us begin in Genesis. God created man and then he created woman. This was two separate occurrences and order is key. He created Adam and then Eve.

Jesus treated women with grace and kindness, do not get me wrong. I mean just look at how He treated the woman at the well, the one who used all of her expensive perfume to cleanse His feet and not to mention His own biological mother! He has a truly unique place in his heart for women, but He also has special intentions for us in the world and in the family setting.

We are to submit to our husbands.

We are to be energetic, strong, and a hard worker.

We are to be busy and helpful to those in need.

We are to be fearless.

All of this is explicitly laid out by God in Proverbs 31.

We are not to be equal to our male counterparts. Jesus does not lay out the Proverbs 31 man, but He rather lays out the Proverbs 31 woman.

A husband or man is to be the head of the household as Christ is to the church.

A man is to love a woman so deeply that represents how he loves himself.

A man is to leave his father and mother.

Women and men are not equal in God's eyes, but they each represent Him in their own ways that the other needs.

If we were all equal, we would not need one another and therefore we would not need God. I am so thankful that we were not created equal. I am so thankful that God is so great that He could not just create only man or woman to represent His image. He is so perfect.

So, you see I am not a feminist, and it is OK.

It is acceptable for me to have this belief that God intended for men to lead women. It is also okay for people to have differing opinions. Writing this was not easy, but I know that not all people agree.

To feminists and those that are not, you are allowed to believe whatever you wish but have evidence to back it up.

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To The Girls Who Have Doubts About Their Worth

You can do so much more than you know!

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I won't say I'm a professional at this, but it is a frequent state of mind. I think that's just something we all go through. Whether it be during high school, college, or even later. There's a small part of your brain that whispers, "You don't deserve this" or "You're not good enough." And despite all of your accomplishments and how far you've come, you believe it. It's not your fault, it's none of ours, it's just something that makes us second guess everything about ourselves. It's not intentional, it just happens. Sometimes even without us knowing it. So, this article is for you all. I hope it helps.

This past semester has been the best one of my three years of college. I got the best grades, the highest GPA, and I actually enjoyed myself. I am in my major classes, and it really made me proud that I made the scary switch. I am in a much better place and I am so thankful. I am changing apartments next year and living in the same complex as three of my best friends. I am going to get a job and enjoy my senior year. So, despite having all of these amazing things in my life, there is still a sliver of doubt that I don't deserve it. Since I found my passion, I'm not allowed to have two fantastic internships or a summer job. Or time next semester to enjoy my college career. And it doesn't matter how many times my mom reassures me that I'm doing great or my friends tell me that this is the happiest they've seen me, I still have this doubt.

My advice for dealing with the negative thoughts is this: tune them out. Say f*** it, and just do your thing.

All you can do is better yourself and your future. Take risks and do something that you actually enjoy. I didn't realize how much I hated business until I switched to journalism. Even a small change like that has really turned my entire life around. I have met so many fun and awesome people that I now call my friends because of this switch. It's OK to be nervous but take that leap of faith. Trust yourself. You are capable of so much more than you let yourself believe. As long as you are safe and careful, make things happen. Apply for that job. Get that tattoo. Do what makes you happy. Because that's all any of us want. We all want to be happy, and if you can do that, you can do anything.

Yes, putting yourself out into the world is super scary. But it's worth it when it matters and it's something you want to do. You are worth so much more than you are aware of, and that stupid, little voice in the back of your head should be your motivation. It should push you to become the best version of yourself you can be. Don't let it hold you back, let it push you forward. You don't want to miss out on awesome opportunities because of that stupid voice, right? Right! So, just tell that voice, "Give it your best shot" because you just use that voice to motivate yourself to do the best you can. Nothing should hold you back, even that little voice, because, you can move mountains and change the world.

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