The last two weeks of every spring semester simply suck. You spend all summer waiting to get back to college, but spend the little time you have left complaining about wanting to go home. Every little thing seems to drive you crazy and every person makes you want to jump off a ledge. Every college student encounters these struggles at least once during their college career and can live to say that the struggle is indeed real.
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As I packed up my dorm room and unpacked it all once I got home, I kinda felt stupid. I moved in with 2 cars full of stuff (yes, I know how extra that sounds and yes, it was indeed that extra) and I didn't end up needing half of it. Now, I'm swimming in stuff I need to get rid of while holding on to the stuff I didn't realize I would need and ended up buying mid-year. No matter how much you think you know everything, first-time dorm residents, please listen.
6 things I DIDN'T need but swore I did
1. All my personal books
I mean, I'm an English major and I love to read, but no one, and I mean no one, A) has free time and B) uses that free time to read in college.
There's a coffee shop I can use my cafe credits at on my way to class. I never woke up early enough to brew my own coffee, and I never craved it bad enough in the afternoon to feel like I needed to make my own immediately. It was nice to make tea with though.
3. Dishes and Silverware/Excessive Mugs
All you need is 1 mug and a couple of water bottles. I promise you paper plates and plastic silverware are all you need.
4. An overabundance of office supplies
I didn't use all those fancy office supplies in high school, so as much as I love them, I have yet to reach for them in college.
The T.V. I had was only slightly bigger than my laptop screen and the wifi at my dorm wasn't good enough for streaming. I hardly used it, but I know others used theirs a lot. Just a personal preference!
6. Tons of wall art
I totally believe wall art has the power to make a dorm room feel less institutional, but I wish I had brought more pictures from home to make my room personal. Pinterest dorm rooms just aren't real, and they aren't what you want when you're homesick.
6 things I wish I had bought before school started
1. ID Lanyard
I personally love these ones from Vera Bradley , but honestly, any way you can carry your ID, money, and keys all in one is a life changer.
2. Earplugs/Eye Mask
Dorms are loud even during quiet hours and sometimes your roommate stays up later or gets up earlier than you do. Amazon couldn't ship these to me fast enough.
3. Wireless Headphones/Earbuds
Personally, I'm an earbuds girl, but either one does the trick. It's nice to not have to deal with cords and to be able to connect to any of your devices without an adapter.
4. Laptop Shell/Stickers
Almost everyone ends up ordering stickers to put on their laptop to express themselves to those around them. On a practical level though, you're probably going to have the same laptop as 5+ other students in your lecture and you will probably throw your laptop in a bag and run at some point. A shell and some stickers will provide more protection than you realize. Check out http://www.redbubble.com for some great options.
5. Small vacuum
This is especially important if you get a rug. Sweeping is not pleasant, and the vacuums at your dorm are probably older than you are.
6. Pictures from home
Like I said before, wall art isn't going to comfort you when you want to go home. A picture of your dog or best friend sure will though.
Going into the summer after my high school graduation, all I could think about was college, and how I was going to prepare to go to a new school and move away from home. Just know, it is not as stressful as you prepare yourself for it to be. You don't need to worry about not having any friends or not knowing how to get to all the different buildings because you have to remember everyone else on campus has been in the exact same position you are in, and there are tons of people on campus to help you.
One of the things I was most worried about was classes and how to know which classes to take. My advice is to go to counseling and plan out your classes before you register. Planning out classes will drastically help you stay on track and the counselors will help you make a balanced schedule that you can actually handle.
Another piece of advice would be to not bring as much stuff for your dorm as you think you will need. By all means, bring the essential things that you will need, but remember a dorm room is very small and you share it with another person. You won't have a ton of space for extra stuff and you want to have space to move around and actually live in your dorm.
Finally, if you are concerned about meeting people and making friends, just try and be as outgoing and open as possible. Everyone else in the dorms is just as nervous as you are too meet people, it really helps to try to branch out. Joining clubs or greek life also helps you meet people around campus with common interests as you.
College is not something to be scared of. Even though it seems stressful and it is a big new place, it will be some of the best memories you will have for life.