Just Because An Abuser Makes Good Art Doesn't Mean You Should Defend Their Death

Just Because An Abuser Makes Good Art Doesn't Mean You Should Defend Their Death

When you support the art of an artist who has committed horrible acts you are, in turn, supporting those acts.


On June 18th, TMZ broke the news of the shooting and suspected (and then later confirmed) death of controversial hip hop star XXXTentacion. The rapper was shot in his car outside a motorcycle dealership where he was shopping. News of his death broke quickly and people were just as quick to take sides.

The entire career of XXXTentacion, whose real name is Jahseh Onfroy, has been a controversial one, with him having faced nearly a dozen felony charges at the time of his death. He was charged with domestic assault and battery against his ex-girlfriend, including head-butting her, strangling her, and threats to kill er, among other acts. While facing these charges, Onfroy racked up over a dozen more felony charges of witness tampering, when he made recorded calls from jail, including apparent calls to his girlfriends attempting to get her to drop the charges against him.

This article from the Daily News lays out a long list of the charges against the rapper. The rapper has also admitted to violently assaulting his homosexual cellmate for looking at him while he was naked.

Now, at this point, you're probably thinking to yourself, "why would anyone actually like this person?" That is a valid thought. Onfroy is one of the first rappers to make music about his mental illness. He had a troubled life that included trying to stab the man that was "messing" with his mom. He lived back and forth between his mother and his grandmother throughout his youth. His childhood was that of most with troubled youths: kicked out of school at a young age, locked up in a youth detention center, dropped out of high school, no solid family foundation or place to call home. This story is one that is found in the bio section of most rappers, but the thing that sets Onfroy apart is how he let it define him.

Many people want the public to excuse his actions, claiming that he had done them when he was a kid, that he was making amends for his actions, that one mistake shouldn't define his life. These people are not aware of just how many "mistakes" Onfroy made. He REPEATEDLY abused his girlfriend; he knew what he was doing, there was no doubt in his mind. Someone that makes a mistake does not openly brag about it on a podcast that they know hundreds of thousands of people could listen to.

Those who didn't support Onfroy's career were not afraid to make that fact clear after his death, stating that, just because he is dead, we cannot forget what he had done. This is true and is applicable to much more than just this one person's death. The argument that people need to start separating the art from the artist is not a new one, but is still invalid. When you support the art of an artist who has committed horrible acts you are, in turn, supporting those acts. You are telling these people that what they have done is okay because of the power and popularity they have.

Those in support of Onfroy say that he had been bettering himself and all of the bad that he did was in his past, and were all mistakes. One of the few signs of proof that Onfroy had made amends is his claim that he donated $100,000 to anti-abuse foundations. However, there is no clear proof that he actually donated the money.

This whole situation is a social media mess, bringing out the worst in everyone. This is, however, the prime example of how quick people will jump to defend abusers simply because they make good art. The same is true for people like Chris Brown and Woody Allen. It's about time that people begin to actually listen to the victims of domestic abuse and start to ostracize the abusers like they do the victims.

National Domestic Abuse Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

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18 Times Kate Middleton Was Actually All Of Us In College, Beside The Princess Thing

Every girl has to go through her clueless college stage before she reaches Duchess status.

Kate Middleton is basically a household name by now, and how could this not be the case when she has the gorgeous hair, kind smile, and incredible fashion sense. With her constantly in the spotlight looking so put together, we sometimes forget that the Duchess was actually all of us in college!

Here are 18 times that Kate proved she was just like all of us.

1. Going all out in the name of school spirit

There is nothing like breaking out the war paint and screaming for your home team. Like Kate, we all love to get a little messy and make some memories with our friends.

2. Hanging out with the roomies

Some people may not get lucky in this area but for those who are best friends with their roommates, they understand the love. It's a dream come true for everyone who has always wanted to live with their best friends. It's like a sleepover that never ends.

3. Dressing up cute on the first day of school...

You got to make a good first impression on your way to school. Whether it's during your 7 A.M or 4 P.M., it's always best to dress to impress.

4. ...and wearing yoga pants for the rest of the year

And this goes all the way until the last week of school when you don't bother getting out of bed to wear pants at all.

5. Going grocery shopping and throwing in cookies, ice-cream, and every type of Pringles because your mom isn't there to say no

You'll probably regret that in a few months when the Freshman Fifteen kicks in.

6. Walking for miles from your car to your dorm carrying groceries

We can't park by the apartment for a solid five minutes to carry our groceries up to the kitchen or we will risk a ticket, but we can walk a few miles carrying food that gets heavier, and heavier, and heavier with every step.

7. Going out for a night on the town on a Friday night

Dancing, laughter, and fun? Everyone in college has been to a party or two. It's a classic part of the college experience. Sometimes you just need a distraction from all the essays and tests.

8. Being so late to class you threw on whatever your hands grabbed next

We've all been there. Our alarm doesn't go off, we press snooze a few too many times, or forget to even set an alarm and next thing you know we are running around the dorm room like Taz from Looney Toons. You throw on whatever, then run to class.

Unfortunately 9/10 times our outfits don't turn out. Although, Kate can certainly pull off this look, no matter how mismatched.

9. Pretending your walking to the same building as the cute boy you met so you have the excuse to keep talking to him

I am very guilty of doing this. Although I missed my class, at least I got to talk to the really cute boy who has class at 9:45 in the STEM building. It was worth it.

10. Sitting on the floor or standing because you're a poor college student who can't afford chairs or tables

Eating on the floor? Always. Being a college kid is tough and sometimes you have to sacrifice some things to obtain the others. Such as choosing chocolate milk and Halo Top over vegetables and hair conditioner.

Judging by Kate's beautiful locks, she chose the conditioner.

Probably the vegetables too.

We should just all follow her example.

11. Going on cute date with the boy you followed to class-turned-boyfriend

Now my short-lived romance may not have extended farther than us talking and walking to his class, but Kate and William obviously had a better ending. Nevertheless, college is the place to grow and date and possibly find the one.

12. Keeping your hair long and growing because you can't afford to get it cut

Don't trust your roommate. No matter how many times she begs you to let her cut it. Don't.

13. Turning 21 and getting dressed up and going out with your best friends

While this one probably doesn't apply to Kate, since you can drink at age 18 in most countries, all my people in the United States know the sweet freedom of turning 21. It's an iconic time in a students life and marks a huge milestone as well.

14. Passing out flyers for some type of movement or protest

Everyone wants to be a part of something bigger - which is why college is the time to stand up for what you believe in. May that be RedforEd, Planned Parenthood, anti-Abortion, Trump, the Wall, pizza bagels, it's all an exercise of the first amendment.

15. Ranting to your friends about the professor that just "doesn't understand you"

You know your thinking about that professor right now as you read this. And you know that that's your reaction whenever they give you a bad grade or say something you disagree with at the tiniest degree.

16. Getting glammed-up for those senior photos

Pick out your best outfit and make sure it's a good hair day because everyone will be viewing these photos forever... and in Kate's place that is more than true. Luckily she looks as gorgeous as ever. Does she ever have a bad hair day?

17. Walking out of your last class knowing you'll never have to write a single paper again

And purposefully not thinking about how you will be going into the real world in less than a few days.

18. When you've graduated and realized you have no idea what you're going to do with your life

Maybe a prince will be right around the corner to sweep you off your feet so you won't have to figure your life out.
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DIY + Affordable Mother's Day Gifts

Appreciation doesn't have to come with an expensive price tag


Mother's Day is coming quick and if you haven't found a gift yet you might be panicking.

Our mother's do so much for us and we want to be able to give them something that shows them how much we love and appreciate them and everything they do.

Your appreciation doesn't have to come with an expensive price tag, though.

There are easy and affordable gifts you can make or buy for your Mom.

Mani or Pedi in a jar 

This is a simple and easy gift you can personalize and can even get all the supplies at the Dollar Tree. This is a great gift to give your Mom to allow her to relax and take a break while pampering herself.

1. Mason Jar or any cute cup or bowl you like

2. Epsom Salt

3. Nail Polish (their favorite color!)

4. Nail polish remover

5. Clippers

Put all of your items in the Mason Jar or cup/bowl and BAM! You've got a Mani or Pedi in a jar. Put a bow on it if you want to be a little extra.

Jar of Love

Find a jar with a lid and write all the things you love about your Mom!

When you're done writing fold them up and put them in jar! Try to fill the jar up, it shouldn't be hard.

You can find a jar that already has designs or paint and decorate your own.

This is a cheap but very personal gift that will get them excited to see what nice things you have written inside.

String Art

String Art requires few tools and is a fun and easy way to make a gift your Mom can use to decorate!

What you'll need:

1. Piece of wood

2. Nails

3. Hammer

4. Your choice of string colors

You can either sketch on the wood what you want your outline to be or print out a design and nail down your design and tear away the paper when you're done.

Whichever method you choose, evenly space out your nails and nail them into the wood.

Once you're done with that you can get your yarn/string and start wrapping it around the nails. Some people like to make patterns with their yarn, others like to do it at random, it's up to you!

Care Package 

Do a package of their favorite things!

This doesn't have to be expensive. Once again, the Dollar Tree is your friend! They have candy, face mask, crafts, books, snacks and more.

Buy a box and decorate it and fill it with all the things you find!

Decorate a Mug/Plate 

Buy a plain mug or plate and get some sharpies and tap into your inner artist!

Draw your art on the mugs/plate with sharpie and let them sit 72 hours before baking them.

Once 72 hours have passed, place your mugs and plates in a cold oven (this is important, don't preheat the oven before hand) and set the bake temperature to 425.

Let bake for 1 hour and let them cool completely before removing them from the oven to help prevent cracking.

When you wash your mugs and plates it's advised to hand wash them, but it's your life!

These are just a couple of easy and affordable gift ideas.

Pinterest is also a great place to look for more ideas or for any other help/instructions on the gift ideas that were listed here.

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