Over a year ago I wrote a controversial, hot topic article called, "Boyfriends Don't Receive Husband Privileges." It currently has over 7k views...but that's not to say it didn't come without a lot of hate mail, mean comments, and messages my way. I still stand with every word I wrote in that article.
At the end of the day, I do, and always will, believe sex is for marriage.
However, to each their own. If you already hate every word I'm saying, you know how to close the page. If you believe otherwise, cool, I can't change you. But how come you will blatantly and often times vulgarly sing along to songs about sex day in and day out, yet the minute someone wants to sanctify sex, give it the respect and value it deserves, and talk about it in an open, real, pure, and honest way, you get mad. So mad that you go to the extent of sending someone a personal message about how you'd like to slap them, or about how they'll never find a husband with old-fashioned views like that?
To me that's even further proof of my point - if something angers you so much, then that means you're feeling convicted in some sense about something. You are, in some way or another, feeling something you don't like. Whether that be guilt, frustration, hurt, or conviction, I don't know. But if you would just stop, examine yourself and your feelings and process your thoughts about why you feel so offended or condemned, maybe you'd realize the answer within. Or maybe, just maybe you'd acknowledge the truth and the peace that comes with my beliefs towards the sanctity and complete weight of sharing yourself entirely with someone.
I'm by no means expecting you to agree with me, appreciate this article, or change your ways. I'm solely asking you to look within yourself about why my words about sex offend you, when hip-hop lyrics don't.