"What will people say?"
How many times have you heard this sentence? This sentence is a dream killer. So many opportunities have been missed because of this sentence. So many people stopped reaching for what they want because of this sentence. Stop asking yourself, "what will people say?" Does it really matter? Is their opinion really more important than your own happiness?
"If someone isn't what others want them to be, the others become angry. Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own." — Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist
It does not matter what anyone has to say about you or your choices. Your day to day life should not be lived according to others nor should you be defined by the expectations and perceptions of other people. I think this issue and concern does not just revolve around one age group but with teens and adults alike. You have one life, and it's your choice to make it and live it in any way you want to. Don't let what other people say or what you think other people will say keep you from living out your life to the fullest.
"How would your life be different if…You stopped allowing other people to dilute or poison your day with their words or opinions? Let today be the day…You stand strong in the truth of your beauty and journey through your day without attachment to the validation of others" — Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free