Every semester, we long for the next break, thinking about all the stuff we can do when we aren't dragged down by homework and class. We talk about leaving responsibility behind and exchanging it for long nights and bonfires, but that doesn't always happen.
I've worked full-time during the summers for years now, and I wouldn't have it any other way.
Those "perfect summer days" of going to the beach or hanging out with friends every day aren't the only way to enjoy the summer break. Fond memories can be made during those 8-hour shifts alongside your co-workers.
I will say, that where you work is a determining factor in this situation. I'm lucky to have worked in the same place for three summers now. And, during the combined months in my job, I have learned so much while also making friends and memories.
Life is about balance and prioritization. Neither of which usually come easily. But, by working full-time in summer and still making the effort to see friends and family outside of work, you can work on both while still having the best summer possible.
There are still times when I stop and ask myself if I'm taking my job too seriously, or if I'm not taking enough time to relax. But, either is just fine to me.
By working hard during my summers, and treating seasonal positions as more than a way to make some money, I am able to get more out of my experiences.
I've been gaining experience in countless aspects of work. How to talk to customers, how to engage and discuss problems, and how to be determined and efficient. I'm learning and improving skillsets for later in life, even if it takes the majority of my time.
As I mentioned above, how and what you prioritize affects your perspective and your summer. It's okay to want to not think about school, work, and/or responsibilities for a bit, but just don't ignore them altogether.
Find your balance, even if it's not 50/50.
You might think back on past summers based on what campsite or beach you were at, but I like basing mine on my work experience and job. As a full-time student, I've become accustomed to focusing on something that keeps me busy and on my toes.
I want to have a driven purpose so that I can enjoy and appreciate my days off.
This might not work for you, and that's fine. Great even. Do what makes you happy. Just know that working all summer is a viable option when choosing how you spend your time and break.
I work 40-hour weeks and have a routine and schedule, and I'm still enjoying myself.
It boils down to what you hold closest to you. What motivates you and excites you. Play and live to your strengths, even if it isn't what people would expect.