Yes, I Will Always Support A Woman's Right To Choose

Yes, I Will Always Support A Woman's Right To Choose

Here's why it's important to talk about.


After the passing of a new abortion law in New York, my Facebook timeline flooded with anti-abortion rhetoric. I read posts deeming abortion to be a sin- murder- and that all women who choose to 'kill their babies' will be sentenced to Hell. I read false posts, saying that women in New York were now able to just abort their babies up until birth for no reason and that those women 'should be ashamed' of themselves for 'murdering innocent children.'

First, the law protects a women's right to choose, even if Roe V. Wade is overturned. Second, there are various stipulations regarding late-term abortion- it's not just an option open to everyone.

Here's what I think:

There are women who become pregnant from rape. There are women who want to choose abortion, and there are women who want to go through with pregnancy.

There are women who are told they won't survive the birth of their children. There are women who cannot financially afford a child. There are women whose children won't survive birth. There are women whose children die before even exiting the womb. There are women who just don't want children.

There are women with all kinds of different circumstances that lead them to choose an abortion or not. The important part about this isn't abortion itself- it's a simple fact that they are able to choose.

If you are a woman who disagrees with the principles of abortion, I have good news: you will never have to get an abortion that you don't want. But your viewpoint on the topic- whether it be based on religion, culture or your path of morality- doesn't constitute your right to tell other women what to do with their bodies.

The fact of the matter is that abortion will always exist, no matter how you feel about it. The only difference is, if the government puts stipulations on a woman's right to safe abortions, the ones performed will be unsafe and, in some cases, fatal.

Pregnancy is not a consequence of sex; asking women who don't want children to completely abstain from sex is basically impossible, not to mention wrong. That's like condemning women for not wanting to have children, adopting the historic and out-dated viewpoint that a woman's sole purpose in life is to be a mother.

Yes, of course, the lives of children matter. But so do the lives of women. As I stated earlier, if you don't agree with abortion, no one will ever force you to have one. If you don't want to, you don't have to march for women's rights. You don't have to become an activist for change. As a woman, however, I think it's vital that, in the very least, we stand behind one another, regardless of our differences. In this era of change and progress, it is our job to fight for one another, to support each other- and yes, this means accepting our differences and especially changing our language toward those who disagree. Spread kindness, not judgment. If it isn't your body, it shouldn't be your choice.

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I'm The College Girl Who Likes Trump And Hates Feminism, And Living On A Liberal Campus Is Terrifying

I will not sugarcoat it: I don't feel safe on my own campus.


I will get right to the point: being a conservative on a liberal college campus in 2019 downright terrifying.

At my university, I'm sure about 90% of the population, both students and faculty, are liberals. They are very outspoken, never afraid to express their views, opinions, and feelings in several ways. There are pride events for the LGBT community, a huge celebration for MLK day, and tons of events for feminists.

Then there's the minority: the conservatives. The realists. The "racists," "bigots," and "the heartless." I am everything the liberals absolutely despise.

I like Donald Trump because he puts America first and is actually getting things done. He wants to make our country a better place.

I want a wall to keep illegals out because I want my loved ones and me to be safe from any possible danger. As for those who are genuinely coming here for a better life, JUST FILL OUT THE PAPERWORK INSTEAD OF SNEAKING AROUND.

I'm pro-life; killing an infant at nine months is inhumane to me (and yet liberals say it's inhumane to keep illegals out…but let's not get into that right now).

I hate feminism. Why? Because modern feminism isn't even feminism. Slandering the male species and wanting to take down the patriarchy is just ridiculous.

I hate the media. I don't trust anyone in it. I think they are all biased, pathological liars. They purposely make our president look like the devil himself, leaving out anything good he does.

I will not sugarcoat it: I don't feel safe on my own campus.

I mostly keep my opinions to myself out of fear. When I end up getting one of my "twisted" and "uneducated" thoughts slip out, I cringe, waiting for the slap in the face.

Don't get me wrong; not everyone at my university is hostile to those who think differently than they do.

I've shared my opinions with some liberal students and professors before, and there was no bloodshed. Sure, we may not see eye to eye, but that's okay. That just means we can understand each other a little better.

Even though the handful of students and faculty I've talked to were able to swallow my opinions, I'm still overwhelmed by the thousands of other people on campus who may not be as kind and attentive. But you can't please everybody. That's just life.

Your school is supposed to be a safe environment where you can be yourself. Just because I think differently than the vast majority of my peers doesn't mean I deserve to be a target for ridicule. No one conservative does. Scratch that, NO ONE DOES.

I don't think I'll ever feel safe.

Not just on campus, but anywhere. This world is a cruel place. All I can do is stand firm in my beliefs and try to tolerate and listen to the clashing opinions of others. What else can I do?

All I can say is... listen. Be nice. Be respectful of other's opinions, even if you strongly disagree. Besides, we all do have one thing in common: the desire for a better country.

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Dear Young Voices Of America, Stand Up, Speak Up, And Do Something

Our time is now.


Dear young voices of America, I think we can both agree that we are sick of being told we are America's future while simultaneously being told our opinions don't matter. Now I personally do not listen to the people that tell me I'm better seen than heard; however, I know there are people that are a little timider when it comes to raising their voices. I am here to encourage you to be loud and speak up on topics that matter to you. There is no better time than the present to make your voice heard. Whether you are advocating for change in your school or the government, your opinion matters and is relevant.

We are the future of our country. How are we supposed to evoke change and reform if we can't have our voices heard? I call bullshit and I think it's time to take action. Even if you're the first or only person to advocate for your cause, be that person. Don't be afraid of anyone that tries to stand in your way. The only person that can stop you from speaking up for yourself and your cause is you. No matter how many nos you have to hear to get a yes or how many doors you have to knock on to get someone to open up, never give up. Never give up on your cause, never give up on yourself or the people you're representing, just don't do it. There is someone out there that supports you. Maybe they're just too shy to raise their voice too. Be encouraging and be supportive and get people to take a stand with you.

It is never too early or too late to start thinking about your future or to take action. But don't hesitate to say something. The sooner you start speaking up, the sooner you have people joining you and helping you, and the sooner you start to see and experience change. So get up, make that sign, write that letter, make that phone call, take part in that march, give that speech. Do whatever you feel fit to get your point across. Shout it from the rooftops, write it on your profile, send it in a letter, ignore everyone that tries to tell you to give up. Maybe they don't understand now, maybe they don't want to listen, maybe they're afraid to listen, but the more you talk about it and help them understand what exactly you are trying to get across, they will join you.

Even when it feels like you have nobody on your side but yourself, I am on your side. I will cheer you on, I will march with you hand in hand, I will write letters and make phone calls and help you find your voice. My life changed when I found my voice and yours will too.

So dear young voices of America, the time is now. Your time is now. Don't be afraid of the obstacles that you may have to face. Someone is out there waiting for you, waiting to grab your hand and march on with you. As Tarana Burke once said "Get up. Stand up. Speak up. Do something."

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