Most of us don't know what the future holds. If you do know what your future holds, well then, please teach me your ways! Whether your future is going to be bright or not, make sure you're happy in every way possible. Don't force yourself to do something you don't want to do. That'll just cause you stress and sadness. And when you're sad, you eat a ton of chocolate. When you eat too much chocolate, you stomach gets upset. When your stomach gets upset, you can't go out with your friends, and you get sad again. It's just a never ending cycle of sadness. Hey, I'm just tryna help a sista out.
You may not know what you want to do as a career, but that shouldn't stop you from trying different career paths. Be a barista, server, hostess, babysitter, cashier, etc. Try them all. They may be small part-time jobs that you most likely will hate, but you just might fall in love with the industry you work in. If you want to be in fashion, work in a retail store. If you want to own your own restaurant, work as a hostess or server. When you start from the bottom up, you'll understand the industry that much more. Don't think of it as a sh-tty job, think of it as awesome experience. When you have a different look on something, it makes it that much more enjoyable. Just go with the flow.
In relationships, most of us probably don't know who we're going to marry. However, there are a few lucky ones, including myself, who have a good idea of who they will marry in the future. If you've had a rough time dating in the past, that shouldn't stop you from getting back in game. So what if you have a few bad dates? Girls, think of it as a free dinner! Guys, think of it as an experience. You're not losing anything. You may be getting older, but when you force a relationship, it won't be natural or healthy. Love should happen naturally. Just go with the flow.
No matter what you end up doing in your life, you should just go with the flow. Don't stress too much about the future because it'll happen naturally. Whether it's your career or relationship, it'll all work out in the end. Just take a deep breath and relax.