The sorority girl stereotype does not exist! The majority of first-year students entering college decide not to rush simply because they are not a "sorority girl." But what is a "sorority girl?" The answer: it's anything you want "sorority girl" to mean.

When I came to college, I had thought about joining a sorority, but I knew that so many negative connotations were associated with the word, "sorority." When I say "sorority" you probably think of a tall, egotistical, girly-girl with no academic talent but all the creativity in the world. After going through formal recruitment, I can finally prove that statement completely wrong. After getting an inside look at every house that the university has to offer within Greek Life, it is safe to say that every sorority is filled with talented, amazing and kind individuals.

Formal rush was definitely an intimidating and busy experience, but it was worth it. I found the house that fit me best and as a result, I can tell that I met friends that will last a lifetime. So take it from me, that the sorority girl stereotype is not true.

Yes, when big-little season comes, arts and crafts do take place. That does not consume our whole lives. However, when my pledge class was responsible for painting paddles for our bigs, the creativity that each person had seeped out. They were amazing.

Also, partying is not our priority. As a member of Kappa Delta, KD at the University of Maryland is filled with adventitious, humorous, intelligent girls. But according to Kappa Delta, "academic success" is an important priority and so is "social and civic interests." Grades matter; sorority girls are not what you think. We are smart, intelligent, well-rounded individuals who are seeking to succeed in our intended majors.

Lastly, a sorority is centered around its philanthropic organizations and its leadership positions held by the members that are responsible for the chapter's success. Each sorority holds events, fundraisers to bring awareness to their philanthropy and most importantly, helps a worthy cause. Sororities are there to serve the better good and help out their surrounding communities. For example, Kappa Delta works with Girl Scouts and Prevent Child Abuse America. So next time you think that sorority girls just join to party, make friends in frats, and relax, think again. Why would they have a round called "Philanthropy" during formal recruitment if girls weren't passionate about who they are helping?

"From the outside looking in, you can never understand it." A sorority is a place where you meet the most amazing people and get involved in many different ways. No one is afraid to be themselves and as a result, a new definition of "sorority girl" is created.