I’m the youngest of four daughters. When I was a kid, my parent’s friends would joke about the woes of our family having so many daughters. Why you ask? I have no idea. From my perspective, I love having three older sisters. They're my best friends.
Looking back on the memories we’ve made while growing up, I feel so grateful for each one of them. I know we fought and annoyed each other often. One fight ended with us all yelling and throwing paint at each other. I don’t recall what events started our fights but usually, someone ended up in tears.
Despite that, I don’t remember those hostile moments as much as the ones where we laughed, joked and had fun together. Together, we’ve traveled the world, moved countless times, and suffered the highs and lows of everyday life. I have learned so much from watching them in their lives, as they made decisions, made mistakes, and accomplished their goals.
Still, I rely on my older sisters for so much. Here are just a few reasons why I’m grateful for them:
1. They call it like it is.
Without fear of hurting anyone's feelings, sisters are quick to call you out and tell you when you need an attitude check.
2. They are quick to offer advice.
I’ve relied on my older sisters for advice ranging from what classes I should take, what to do about a guy, and even to what workout I should do at the gym. The love we have for each other motivates us to help each other in every situation.
3. Nothing has changed when reuniting after time apart.
In our military life, we are constantly on the move. During the holidays and the random times we get to see each other, we still act the same. We fight, act silly and share clothes just as we always did.
4. They understand your feelings even when you can’t.
Older sisters have already gone through the emotional rollercoaster we find ourselves in. That’s not to say older sisters have it all figured out, but they understand.
5. They’ll forgive you.
There’s an unspoken agreement with my sisters where don’t hold grudges or expect long apologies. We forgive each other for things we’ve said or done, then move on. Forgive and forget.
6. We put up with each other despite our attitudes.
You know about that time when your mood swings like a pendulum and irritability takes over? Sisters know it. Sisters definitely know it.
7. They know you.
Sisters can read each other's faces and automatically know when the other is upset. When your sister just sits down and hugs you without saying a word then she is the real hero.