Let's stop the judgment, we've all been there.
I'm sure you all know someone who is in their 20's but might as well be in their 70's; maybe it's you, maybe it's someone in your inner circle of friends. Their idea of a crazy Friday night is being out until 12 a.m. and having one drink, and they're also probably the one falling asleep sitting up at the bar. While their ideal Friday night is probably lounging (hibernating) in their bed in their PJ's, watching lifetime movies and eating take out. Or maybe you're like me and sometimes that "20-something year old" grandma is you, and sometimes it's not. And here is why that is okay!
1. It's your life!
If you would rather snuggle up with your cat and binge watch Netflix while digging into a jar of Ben&Jerry's, go for it! (Okay, that may be totally me.) But really, don't let people make you feel bad for wanting to relax and spend the night in instead of going to the latest party, where you won't really know anyone anyway and which will probably be filled with lots of pointless chatter with strangers and teenagers who don't know how to handle their alcohol. You'll probably end up sitting alone in the corner, eating all of the chips and playing with a stranger's dog to avoid making eye contact with anyone. (Wow, I'm definitely not speaking from experience or anything.) My point is, don't let anyone make you feel bad for living your life the way that you enjoy.
2. You are not under obligation to do anything.
It seems in this day and age that there is a rule book to follow on how to properly live your 20's, which seems to include all of the following: Go out, party, get wasted, and make sure to get it all on social media. Okay, maybe I'm exaggerating, but still. As a generation it amazes us to hear a person say that they don't drink or they don't smoke. If you don't want to be a crazy party animal--so be it. I'm not saying I don't like a good party. I love parties! But those who don't are free to do whatever else it is that they enjoy, like aforementioned, Netflix and cat cuddles.There is no wrong way to live your 20's! Don't feel out of whack for not being into what everyone else seems to be into.
3. Everyone needs a break.
Your friends will wear themselves out eventually. Too many late nights and hangovers in the morning will catch up to them and they'll find themselves in need of a little R&R. Hmmm.. maybe they'll be burnt out by thirty and then there will be you, with your good old liver fully intact...Kidding, maybe.
4. Much needed me time!
As a proud, "20-something-year-old" grandma, you have plenty of time for yourself which is important. Spending time alone is healthy and beneficial! Plus, you can get a lot done at home, or maybe your too busy doodling and watch Grey's Anatomy on Netflix. Either way, embrace that inner granny!