Why You Shouldn't Fear The Future

You Shouldn't Fear The Future

Growing up can be scary, but there's always something to look forward to.


Just this week, my life turned upside down: I found out that I'm graduating in December of 2019 instead of with the rest of my friends in May 2021. I also got a second interview for a summer job, applied for a spring internship, and talked to someone about a career position for post-graduation. And more seriously, I talked to my boyfriend about our plans once I graduate and I lost a very dear father figure, which resulted in me attending my first funeral.

Growing up is hard.

But the older I get, and the more of life I experience, whether good or bad, I remind myself of a few things.

First and foremost, I remind myself that since the age of 15, I never saw myself graduating from college. Or even high school, for that matter. I didn't see a future for myself at all. So now every time I get stressed about whatever is on my plate, or I wish an uncomfortable or inconvenient moment away, I try to remind myself that I don't have infinite moments to wish away. I do my best to be patient, kind, and understanding to those around me.

I also try my best to let the people in my life know how much I appreciate them. If I end up landing the summer job I'm interviewing for, the last time I will really live at home is this winter break and about two weeks over the summer. I hope my parents know how much I love and appreciate them for raising me, caring for me, and loving me. They impacted my journey greatly and I am so thankful for them. I hope that my little sister knows that, no matter where I live, my door is always open for her and that I have endless love and support to give her. I am so thankful for my childhood but I'm slowly and surely realizing that it's time to move on.

I have met the most wonderful people in college, and sometimes I find myself devastated at the fact that I only get to be with them for two years and they get to be together for four. But as sad as it makes me, I know that the friends I've made are lifelong ones. I know that no matter where we end up, we will still love and make time for each other. I know that my boyfriend is a great man and that we are going to try our best to stick it out.

Between all of these things that I know lingers a lot of uncertainty. There are so many things that could change between today and tomorrow, between 2018 and 2038. And I try not to let those uncertainties get the best of me - I give my best efforts to everything I try and to everyone in my life. Nothing is set in stone in this life, but there are so many opportunities to find out what life holds for you and who is out there and willing to love and support you. Just because the future is uncertain doesn't mean you should never leave your comfort zone. You'll never know if you don't try.

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When You Make A Girl An Aunt, You Change Her World In All The Best Ways

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest girl in the world.


My brother and his wife recently blessed our family with the sweetest bundle of joy on planet earth. OK, I may be a little bias but I believe it to be completely true. I have never been baby crazy, but this sweet-cheeked angel is the only exception. I am at an age where I do not want children yet, but being able to love on my nephew like he is my own is so satisfying.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a very protective person.

From making sure the car seat is strapped in properly before every trip, to watching baby boy breathe while he sleeps, you'll never meet someone, besides mommy and daddy of course, who is more concerned with the safety of that little person than me.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her a miniature best friend.

There is something about an aunt that is so fun. An aunt is a person you go to when you think you're in trouble or when you want something mom and dad said you couldn't have. An aunt is someone who takes you to get ice cream and play in the park to cool down after having a temper tantrum. I can't wait to be the one he runs to.

When you make a girl an aunt, she gets to skip on the difficulty of disciplining.

Being an aunt means you get to be fun. Not to say I wouldn't correct my nephew if he were behaving poorly, but for the most part, I get to giggle and play and leave the hard stuff for my brother.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her the best listening ears.

As of right now I only listen to the sweet coos and hungry cries but I am fully prepared to listen to all the problems in his life in the future.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the best advice giver.

By the time my nephew needs advice, hopefully, I will have all of my life lessons perfected into relatable stories.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a number-one fan

Anything you do in life sweet boy, I will be cheering you on. I already know you are going to do great things.

When you make a girl an aunt, she learns what true love is.

The love I have for my nephew is so pure. Its the love that is just there. I don't have to choose to show love every day, I don't have to forgive, I don't have to worry if it is reciprocated, it is just there.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest person in the world.

I cannot wait to watch my precious nephew grow into the amazing person that I know he is going to be.

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Goodbye School, Hello Real World

I'm ready for ya!


It's starting to hit me.

I've been in school, year after year, since kindergarten. Maybe even pre-school!

Now, I'm about to graduate with my bachelors in communication and I couldn't be more proud of myself. I'll say it. I often sugarcoat it or suppress it but d*mn it. I'm going to applaud myself. It was hard work. It took a lot of motivation, determination, (caffeine), and willpower to get to where I am today. I worked my ass off.

That being said, I can't help but think... What is life without due dates? What is life like without scrambling to turn in an assignment that's due at 11:59 PM? What is life like with actual sleep? Sleep? I don't know her.

Like I keep telling my boyfriend and my parents, I don't have it all figured out. At least not right now. But I will, and I'm in no rush to land my dream job right now. If anything, I want to take a year to myself. I want to travel. I want to sleep in if I d*mn well please! I want to read as many books as I want. I want to write till my fingers fall off (OK, maybe not that).

You get the jist.

I'm free. I can do and be whatever I want. And you know what? That's terrifying.

I'm lost. I've followed this structure for so long. Now what?

I don't have all the answers yet. But for now, at least right at this very moment, I'm so thankful to have been able to receive such an amazing education. And to be able to say I'm graduating with my bachelors in communication at 21 is an accomplishment in itself.

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