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Who Makes The First Move In A Relationship

Be the person you are meant to be — be yourself, and everything will fall into place.

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Relationships are a great topic because everyone has their own opinion, and everyone talks about what they want in one. I am sorry if I offend anyone by this article, but it is my opinion of what I have been thinking about these past few months. I don't mean to sound sexist; if it comes out that way, again, it's my opinion.

Like I was saying, the topic is relationships. Relationships have certainly changed over the years. I feel like it is harder to go on a date in the present than it was in the past. Not to pick on the boys, but they can flirt with a girl, yet they don't take it any farther than that.

Girls aren't a toy that you play around with. Guys, if you are interested and flirting with a girl, take the initiative, and give the girl your number or ask her on a date. I feel like guys, in today's society, feel they have to take the first step, which isn't true, because women have the power as well. Guys, don't feel turned off if the woman asks you on a date — it can go one of two ways.

Remember ladies, being rejected is not a bad thing, because it is not your fault, it is their's; it is their loss for not taking a chance with a great woman.

Even on dating apps, guys don't want to take the first step in saying, "hi." I don't understand why you look at a guy's profile, you have things in common, you are what they want, but they don't message you. No offense, guys, but are you that cliche? Guys, jump out of your comfort zone and ask the woman out. The girl is waiting and, in the end, will be glad that you finally did.

In the end, be the person you are meant to be. Be yourself and everything will fall into place.

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