Dear Rylee,

It's scary to think of you being my age because that would mean that I'd be about 30 years old, but I thought passing down my knowledge now would better help you than letting you figure things out on your own. Hopefully, you can turn back to this article in the future when you need a little guidance.

The most important thing for you to know is that Mom is probably right. I know it sucks hearing that when she tells you no and you will think she's being rude, but that's not the case. She's looking out for you. There have been few times in my life when our mother has been wrong about something. Don't take her advice and wisdom for granted.

Something I wished I knew was that you don't have to be a people pleaser. I know we, as a family, have a tendency to have big hearts but do not let what people want you to do determine what you want. You cannot make everyone happy. The most important person for you to keep happy is yourself. If people don't like that about you, then forget it. It's okay to be a little selfish sometimes, but also don't lose that big heart of yours.

Follow your passion. Don't let money or fear control what you want to do with your life. Follow what makes you happy. If you want to be an artist, go for it. If you want to be a teacher, don't think twice about it. Do not get stuck doing something that makes you miserable.

Mental health comes first, know that. I ignored and pushed aside my own mental health for years because I was too focused on school work and other things. That wasn't okay. Worry about yourself. Make yourself happy first. Your mental state needs to be at the top of your priority list.

Also, never settle. Even though you are only eight years old, I see your potential. You are so bright and amazing. I never want you to think down on yourself or not go for something because you think you can't do. You've already proven that your strong, smart, and brave. Never let that change. If anyone deserves the world, it is you. I want to see you take the world by storm in the future like I know you can.

The last thing I need you to remember is you have me. I know our age gap makes things difficult, but I will always be there for you. No matter what I am just a phone call or video chat away. I know sometimes it seems like I'm not your biggest fan, but I am. I would do anything to help you out. Mom will not always be the easiest person to talk to about things, but that's when you can come to me. I'm beyond proud of you. I cannot wait to see what you accomplish in the future.

Love,

Your Older Sister