A letter to students who are undecided about their future

To All The People Who Have NO Clue What They Want To Do When They Grow Up

A letter to all the college students who have no idea what they want to major in/be when they leave school.


Dear Utterly Confused and Undecided College Student,

College is supposed to be a time of exploration. People always tell you that it's okay to not know what you want to major in or what you want to be post-graduation. But, when you enter your first semester and everyone around you has a 5-year plan, strict goals, and the luxury of knowing what they were meant to do, the words that were meant to reassure you suddenly become less and less meaningful.

While college is indeed a place to probe through all your likes and dislikes, it is also a place where the comparison comes naturally.

I am about to enter my sophomore year, and to all my aunts, uncles, random family members, and my mom's friends I see in the grocery store: No, I do not know what I want to do after leaving Syracuse. We grow up in a world that emphasizes and over-exaggerates the importance of time.

Everything appears to be a race, when in reality, what's best for you may take more than one engineering or history course to discover.

So, if you are just entering your freshman year and are praying that the reassurance from older generations that you "really don't have to know what you want to do," and that "You have time!" are true, or if you are halfway through your college career and are stuck feeling behind in comparison to your peers, DO NOT WORRY.

You will figure it out.

Maybe it's something you would have never expected. Or maybe you have been discouraged from your true passion because "there are no jobs in that field." Regardless of what is happening in your life, I can reassure you that your college major is not everything. You can get a degree in one area and end up doing something completely different.

Good things take time. It is up to you to trust yourself and your instincts. In a society so focused on work, comparison, and the importance of time in all the wrong ways, becoming discouraged is the easiest thing in the world. Understanding that you have to do what is best for YOU and following through with it, no matter how long it takes, is one of the bravest things in the world.

Allow yourself to struggle, question, and make mistakes. Be gentle and kind to yourself, too. You will figure it out and you will create a life you love, just give yourself the time to.

Love Always,

An Utterly Confused and Undecided College Student

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When You Make A Girl An Aunt, You Change Her World In All The Best Ways

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest girl in the world.


My brother and his wife recently blessed our family with the sweetest bundle of joy on planet earth. OK, I may be a little bias but I believe it to be completely true. I have never been baby crazy, but this sweet-cheeked angel is the only exception. I am at an age where I do not want children yet, but being able to love on my nephew like he is my own is so satisfying.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a very protective person.

From making sure the car seat is strapped in properly before every trip, to watching baby boy breathe while he sleeps, you'll never meet someone, besides mommy and daddy of course, who is more concerned with the safety of that little person than me.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her a miniature best friend.

There is something about an aunt that is so fun. An aunt is a person you go to when you think you're in trouble or when you want something mom and dad said you couldn't have. An aunt is someone who takes you to get ice cream and play in the park to cool down after having a temper tantrum. I can't wait to be the one he runs to.

When you make a girl an aunt, she gets to skip on the difficulty of disciplining.

Being an aunt means you get to be fun. Not to say I wouldn't correct my nephew if he were behaving poorly, but for the most part, I get to giggle and play and leave the hard stuff for my brother.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her the best listening ears.

As of right now I only listen to the sweet coos and hungry cries but I am fully prepared to listen to all the problems in his life in the future.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the best advice giver.

By the time my nephew needs advice, hopefully, I will have all of my life lessons perfected into relatable stories.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a number-one fan

Anything you do in life sweet boy, I will be cheering you on. I already know you are going to do great things.

When you make a girl an aunt, she learns what true love is.

The love I have for my nephew is so pure. Its the love that is just there. I don't have to choose to show love every day, I don't have to forgive, I don't have to worry if it is reciprocated, it is just there.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest person in the world.

I cannot wait to watch my precious nephew grow into the amazing person that I know he is going to be.

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To The Dog That Changed My Life

What I once thought was going to be "just a dog" has turned into my favorite shotgun rider, my hiking buddy, and the cutest little ice cream date in the world.


"And I found that life sometimes has a funny way of giving you exactly what you need, but not in the form you expect."

I never expected that form to be in a 60-pound ball of fur who has filled my life with love, laughter, and so many muddy paw prints that I lost count.

I never expected a dog to change my life that much. In reality, I wasn't even ready for the responsibility. But, her puppy eyes melted my heart, and I knew that I just had to adopt her.

I got her when I was nineteen and just starting school with zero extra time for a puppy. But, somehow, we made it through. We grew up together. She taught me responsibility and gave me something to work for. Having a puppy makes you get out of bed on your bad days. Having a puppy makes you want to go to work to be able to afford dog food. Having a puppy makes you want to stay home because she can't be left alone for too long. With every passing month, she got bigger and I got more responsible.

She has changed my life in ways I never could imagine. She gives me the motivation to work hard in school. She gives me something to look forward to coming home to. She gives me happiness when I feel like I lost everything, and she gives me so many smiles because I get to wake up to her every morning.

What I once thought was going to be "just a dog" has turned into my favorite shotgun rider, my hiking buddy, and the cutest little ice cream date in the world.

I am so thankful that she changed my life the way she did and filled the hole in my heart that I didn't even know was missing.

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