What Love Should We Hold On To?

What Love Should We Hold On To?

We need love to function and support our crazy days...what love holds a forever place in your heart?

Just like every other college student out there, I seem to say this a lot...I am so busy. You can find me hourly writing new lists I need to accomplish and trying to figure out how to balance a crazy workload.

Recently, when I should be studying, writing, or sleeping, I have been thinking a lot about my life and the people/things that make it great.

I have come to the conclusion after lots of thought, that I am a person who needs an abundance of love to survive each and every day. But how is that happening?

I have openly admitted that love and happiness make me feel whole, but where am I getting it from and why am I not constantly saying thank you to the people and things that get me through my day?

What love is forever?

Jesus's Love

I have found my biggest love is something I cannot touch or see. Finding/working on my personal relationship with God has created a faith and happiness didn't know I would ever have or feel. Especially in this busy time of need, I know that I can find a daily ounce of love through prayer, thought and talking to Him. Knowing I have someone to hear my true voice each day is a breath of fresh air.

Our Family's Love

Yes, we are away from our family during our time away at college, but that is something that can bring us closer to our families. Having an outside perspective, a familiar voice, and someone to always lean back on is not only comforting but an amazing love that we should never let go of.

The love we find in friendships

As we continue to keep adulting, people are coming in and out of our lives for a reason. People you have met in college or elsewhere, hold on to the relationships that challenge you to be a better person, make you feel radiant, and continue to love you as you grow individually.

Our passions hold our greatest love

If you have found a passion, hold on to it, that is your small niche in this large world. Having something that gives you love and you give love to it, is irreplaceable. We were put on this earth to be different, creative and have unique traits, it is time to embrace them and showcase your love to the world.

Coffee is love we should never stop feeding ourselves

Why would we ever say, "goodbye" to our bodies biggest love? Coffee...yes sounds silly, but true. Coffee feeds our body which makes us as sometimes grumpy and exhausted humans happy. Nurturing our bodies with caffeine is filling our hearts and souls with an unconditional need and love.

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To The Dad Who Didn't Want Me, It's Mutual Now

Thank you for leaving me because I am happy.

Thank you, for leaving me.

Thank you, for leaving me when I was little.

Thank you, for not putting me through the pain of watching you leave.

Thank you, for leaving me with the best mother a daughter could ask for.

I no longer resent you. I no longer feel anger towards you. I wondered for so long who I was. I thought that because I didn't know half of my blood that I was somehow missing something. I thought that who you were defined me. I was wrong. I am my own person. I am strong and capable and you have nothing to do with that. So thank you for leaving me.

In my most vulnerable of times, I struggled with the fact that you didn't want me. You could have watched me grow into the person that I have become, but you didn't. You had a choice to be in my life. I thought that the fact that my own father didn't want me spoke to my own worth. I was wrong. I am so worthy. I am deserving, and you have nothing to do with that. So thank you for leaving me.

You have missed so much. From my first dance to my first day of college, and you'll continue to miss everything. You won't see me graduate, you won't walk me down the aisle, and you won't get to see me follow my dreams. You'll never get that back, but I don't care anymore. What I have been through, and the struggles that I have faced have brought me to where I am today, and I can't complain. I go to a beautiful school, I have the best of friends, I have an amazing family, and that's all I really need.

Whoever you are, I hope you read this. I hope you understand that you have missed out on one of the best opportunities in your life. I could've been your daughter. I could have been your little girl. Now I am neither, nor will I ever be.

So thank you for leaving me because I am happy. I understand my self-worth, and I understand that you don't define me. You have made me stronger. You have helped make me who I am without even knowing it.

So, thank you for leaving me.

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My Boyfriend's Family Helped Me Find My Home Away From Home

Taking "home is where the heart is" to a new level.


I have always heard that one day I will find a place that will feel like my home away from home, specifically with my significant other. Honestly, I couldn't envision loving a place like the way I do my hometown, let alone love it even more. Nonetheless, here I am, sitting in the Little Rock, Arkansas airport tearing up as I say goodbye to my home away from home.

Let me tell you about my hometown. I live in a relatively small town in Wyoming and it has always been my home. My family, friends and work are here in Wyoming. But, there happens to be this man who has my whole entire heart. His hometown is a little town in Arkansas, that also happens to be 17 hours away from me. I came to visit him in his hometown for the first time ever. Not only to see Arkansas for the first time but to see him for the first time in a month and to have the opportunity to meet his family.

I won't lie, meeting parents for the first time is definitely nerve-wracking. It's not that I am hard to get along with, it's the fact that I want them to love me because I love their son and I couldn't conceptualize that ever changing. From the moment I stepped into their home, I was welcomed with big arms and beautiful smiles. His family welcomed me, a complete stranger, into their home with no questions asked. Right away I knew I felt like I was home.

Finding your home away from home is easy to recognize. Home is a place full of love and laughter and that is what I found in Arkansas. It was a second home that I felt comfortable in. Feeling comfortable somewhere is not always the easiest feeling to grasp. For me, I feel the need to be in a comfortable place to be myself and call it "home."

I believe that it is essential for everyone to have a "second home" or a "home away from home." Having a second family can and does provide so much more love in my life I never knew I needed. I of course do and always will love and adore my family with my whole heart and soul but having these other people in my life gives me so much assurance that I'll always be surrounded with love and happiness. You can never have too many friends, too much family and certainly never too much love. So thank you. Thank you for welcoming me, loving me as your own, and showing me that having a home away from home is such a positive part of my life.

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