What I Learned From Shameless

6 Things I Learned From 'Shameless' About Poverty

I found out what the reality is life for some people--and it's not pretty.


After giving into peer pressure, I finally began watching "Shameless" on Netflix (also partly because I ran out of shows to watch). "Shameless" is about a family of six kids, one father, and their neighbors who live in the projects and are in extreme poverty. The father is a dead-beat dad and an alcoholic who owes money to everyone. The kids are smart: class president, the perfect score on the SATs. Their mother left them and their big sister, Fiona takes care of all of them.

Not many people understand the idea of what it's like to live it the projects or how people live in poverty, but this show puts things in a very clear perspective that have you appreciating everyone a lot more and respect everyone's background.

Here are some things I learned from "Shameless" for those who go through poverty or live in a bad neighborhood:

1. Everyone helps each other out.


In the show, Fiona's neighbors are her best friends, helping each other with everything and borrowing everything from a toaster to a bathroom. Furthermore, people exchange food for babysitting or chores. This system of reliance on each other for trade without money, although ancient, becomes an essential key to surviving. (In the GIF is Kevin--Fiona's neighbor's boyfriend/husband?)

2. Food isn't what it seems.


In the show, many of the characters are seen watering down milk to have it last another day or the OJ (orange juice). Because Fiona's family can't afford to buy groceries on a daily basis, they work their best to make food last every day.

3. Stealing is normal.


Stealing for survival, not for fun. Throughout the show, you see Fiona and other characters stealing from parked delivery trucks or their work--anything left over that is simple to take home to eat to make it to the next day. For example, Fiona steals toilet paper from public restrooms and work.

4. Money is money.


No matter how you earned it--money is money. If you stole it, life's too short to return it or give it back, according to "Shameless". Frank, Fiona's father, is willing to sober up for Here are weeks and change his entire life to earn $3,000 part of a clinical trial even though he's a crazy alcoholic, but for the money, he'll do anything. For a couple of days, he does a complete 360 wanting to remodel the entire house, provide breakfast for his kids when usually he's out late drinking and is never up in the mornings and spends his whole day at the bar or looking for money. He also fakes rib injuries and migraines to get a disability check every month. Furthermore, after his workers' compensation ends, Frank tries to find more work to injure himself

Most of the time we don't think about what we buy or how much it is. In a couple of days most of us will walk by a Starbucks and think about how much we really need the coffee and don't think that $5.00 is a lot, but when we're working shift by shift with a high school education, $5.00 means the world to us.

5. When jobs aren't available, you might have to get down and dirty.

Fiona takes up some jobs that require her to show off her body at a restaurant, kind of like the modern-day Hooter's, where girls dress in a scandalous fashion and guys tip the girls in by placing money into their shorts. After she returns home, Fiona is seen crying in the bathroom, ashamed.

This correlates with modern-day prostitution. Many women find that they make more money with prostitution and keep it as a job since they have to pay the bills, child support, and everything else that goes on in their lives. Similarly, Fiona has to pay off the bills, replace the gas heater, and much more and is forced into a position to use her body for money.

6. Not going to college is normal.


Phillip, Fiona's younger brother makes amazing robotic technologies and scored a perfect 2400 on his SAT. A professor from the University of Chicago invites him on campus and tells him to apply, however, Phillip isn't even sure about going to college and the first thing he thinks of is the debt he'll be in and leaving his family. Furthermore, Fiona dropped out of high school he junior year because her mother left and someone needed to take care of all the kids. During the show, Fiona says something along the lines of how she could get by shift-to-shift and paycheck-to-paycheck to help out her family and it would be perfectly fine.

Education is really important, as many of us know, but for those who struggle through life, the notion of "paycheck-to-paycheck" becomes a serious reality that we consider. So next time you meet someone who hasn't finished high school, middle school, or college, give them some respect and think about what they may have gone through before judging them.

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I Might Have Aborted My Fetus When I Was 18, But Looking Back, I Saved A Child’s Life

It may have been one of the hardest decisions of my life, but I wouldn't be where I am today if I hadn't had done it.


Due to recent political strife happening in the world today, I have decided to write on a very touchy, difficult subject for me that only a handful of people truly know.

When I was 18 years old, I had an abortion.

I was fresh out of high school, and deferring college for a year or two — I wanted to get all of my immature fun out so I was prepared to focus and work in the future. I was going through my hardcore party stage, and I had a boyfriend at the time that truly was a work of art (I mean truly).

Needless to say, I was extremely misinformed on sex education, and I never really thought it could happen to me. I actually thought I was invincible to getting pregnant, and it never really registered to me that if I had unprotected sex, I could actually get pregnant (I was 18, I never said I was smart).

I remember being at my desk job and for weeks, I just felt so nauseous and overly tired. I was late for my period, but it never really registered to me something could be wrong besides just getting the flu — it was November, which is the peak of flu season.

The first person I told was my best friend, and she came with me to get three pregnancy tests at Target. The first one came negative, however, the second two came positive.

I truly believe this was when my anxiety disorder started because I haven't been the same ever since.

Growing up in a conservative, Catholic Italian household, teen pregnancy and especially abortion is 150% frowned upon. So when I went to Planned Parenthood and got the actual lab test done that came out positive, I was heartbroken.

I felt like I was stuck between two roads: Follow how I was raised and have the child, or terminate it and ultimately save myself AND the child from a hard future.

My boyfriend at the time and I were beyond not ready. That same week, I found out he had cheated on me with his ex and finances weren't looking so great, and I was starting to go through the hardest depression of my life. Because of our relationship, I had lost so many friends and family, that I was left to decide the fate of both myself and this fetus. I could barely take care of myself — I was drinking, overcoming drug addictions, slightly suicidal and living with a man who didn't love me.

As selfish as you may think this was, I terminated the fetus and had the abortion.

I knew that if I had the child, I would be continuing the cycle in which my family has created. My goal since I was young was to break the cycle and breakaway from the toxicity in how generations of children in my family were raised. If I had this child, I can assure you my life would be far from how it is now.

If I had carried to term, I would have had a six-year old, and God knows where I would've been.

Now, I am fulfilling my future by getting a BA in Politics, Philosophy and Economics, having several student leadership roles, and looking into law schools for the future.

Although it still haunts me, and the thought of having another abortion truly upsets me, it was the best thing to ever happen to me. I get asked constantly "Do you think it's just to kill a valuable future of a child?" and my response to that is this:

It's in the hands of the woman. She is giving away her valuable future to an unwanted pregnancy, which then resentment could cause horror to both the child and the woman.

As horrible as it was for me in my personal experience, I would not be where I am today: a strong woman, who had overcome addiction, her partying stage, and ultimately got her life in order. If I would have had the child, I can assure you that I would have followed the footsteps of my own childhood, and the child would not have had an easy life.

Because of this, I saved both my life and the child's life.

And if you don't agree or you dislike this decision, tough stuff because this is my body, my decision, my choice — no one else.

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Abortion Bans Are Only A Small Part Of The Republican War On Women

These bans expose the Republican Party for what it truly is.


This week, several states passed laws that ban abortion after six to eight weeks of pregnancy, before most women even know that they're pregnant. The most egregious of these is Alabama — the state has banned abortion except for in cases of danger to the mother. Exceptions in the cases of rape and incest were actively voted against by the state legislature. Under the new law, any doctor who is caught giving an abortion would be sentenced to 99 years in prison, and the woman would be charged with murder.

Apart from the fact that this explicitly violates the decision of Roe v. Wade (which is the point), this is only a small part of the slow but steady degradation of women's rights by Republicans in the United States. To anyone who believes that this is simply about people being "pro-life" or "saving the children," then tell them to look at what happens after the fetus is carried to term.

Republicans oppose forcing fathers to be involved in the lives of their children that were forcibly carried to term, desires to cut food stamps and make it more difficult to feed said child, cut funding for affordable housing to make it more difficult for them to find homes, cut spending to public education so these children can't move up the social ladder, and refuse to offer the woman or her child health insurance to keep them both healthy. What about efforts to prevent pregnancy? Republicans also oppose funding birth control and contraception, as well as opposing comprehensive sexual education. To them, the only feasible solution is to simply keep your legs shut. They oppose all of these things because it is, in their eyes, a violation of individual rights to force people to do something. The bill also makes women who get abortions felons, and felons can't vote. I'll let you finish putting those two together.

If you view it from this framework, it would seem like Republicans are being extremely hypocritical by violating the personal freedoms of pregnant women, but if you look at it from the view of restricting social mobility for women, then it makes perfect sense. The Republican dogma of "individual rights" and "personal responsibility" is a socially acceptable facade that they use to cover up their true intentions of protecting the status quo and protect those in power. About any Republican policy, ask yourself: does this disperse power or consolidate it? Whether it be education, healthcare, the environment, or the economy, Republicans love to keep power away from the average citizen and give it to the small number of people that they deem "deserving" of it because of their race, gender, wealth, or power. This is the case with abortion as well; Power is being taken from women, and being given back to men in a reversal of the Feminist Movement of the 1970s.

Republicans don't believe in systemic issues. They believe that everyone has the same opportunity to succeed regardless of what point they started. This is why they love capitalism so much. It acts as some sort of great filter in which only those who deserve power can make it to the top. It's also why they hate social policies; they think that helping people who can't help themselves changes the hierarchy in a negative way by giving people who don't "deserve" power, power. Of course, we know that just because you have money and power doesn't mean you earned it fair and square, and even if Republicans believe it, it wouldn't change anything because it wouldn't change how they want to distribute power.

In short, Republican policies, including abortion, leave the average American with less money, less protection, less education, worse health, less opportunity, fewer rights, and less freedom. This is NOT a side effect. This is the point. Regardless of what Republicans will tell you about "inalienable rights" and how everyone is equal, in reality, they believe that some people and groups are more deserving of rights than others, and the group that deserves rights the most are the ones "that will do the best with them." To Republicans, this group consists of the wealthy, the powerful, and the white — the mega-rich, the CEOs of large companies, gun owners and Christians.

So, who do Republicans think deserve power and give it to? People who look and think like them. This, however, begs the question: Who do they want to take it from?

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