5 Ways To Express Yourself, Because We All Need An Outlet

5 Ways To Express Yourself, Because We All Need An Outlet

Sometimes you just got to let it out!

When you are in college, being stressed out is a part of the experience. However, a lot of people do not know how to express themselves when they are going through a rough patch. Check out this list of things you can do if you struggle with opening up! It is hard at first to do, but the more you practice being comfortable with your emotions, the better off you will!

1. Music

I think music is one of the most powerful aspects of our society. It has the ability to move you to feel so many different things while also helping you realize that you are not alone in your feelings. Allowing yourself to express your emotions is incredibly healing and listening to music can be one way to let yourself embrace what you are going through in a more personal and private way.

2. Write it out

I may be biased, but I think writing out how you are feeling is very liberating. Getting your ideas and feelings out of your head and onto to a piece of tangible paper or on your laptop allows you to have a sense of release. This release not only allows you to feel better about what you are feeling but also lets you gain a new perspective on the matter. Even if your writing is only ever seen by you, that is just as effective!

3. Talk to someone

This may seem rather intuitive but there are a lot of people who reside within themselves when it comes to expressing themselves. They feel like they cannot open up about how they are really feeling and to be honest, the act itself is rather difficult. I think finding one or maybe two people who you can develop a trusting relationship with is key to eventually having the ability to confide in others.

4. Figure out the source

I find that a lot of people who struggle to express how they feel all have a certain event or reason in their life, specifically within their childhood, that makes them believe that keeping their emotions within themselves is the better option. If you are one of these people, I think that exploring why you think this way and why you choose not to express all your emotions is key to eventually being able to allow yourself to feel.

Not being able to express yourself and shoving away how you truly feel in certain situations is unhealthy if you let these types of feelings fester for many years. Hopefully, if you are able to do a little self-reflecting and find the source of why you hold things in, you will be able to address that issue head-on and move on in your life feeling freer.

5. Do something that you love

Everyone has hobbies or things that they like to do when they get home from work or school. When it comes to expressing yourself, sometimes the best thing to do is to be in an environment that you are comfortable in. Once you are comfortable and doing something that you really enjoy, you will hopefully be more at ease when it comes to talking about how you really feel.

For me, dancing always makes me feel better.

For you, it may be playing a sport, painting, writing a song, playing video games, etc. The key to using your hobbies as a way to express yourself is relying on the activity simply make yourself comfortable; not to distract you from how you are actually feeling. The goal is to use that comfort to open yourself up!

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9 Reasons Crocs Are The Only Shoes You Need

Crocs have holes so your swag can breathe.

Do you have fond childhood objects that make you nostalgic just thinking about your favorite Barbie or sequenced purse? Well for me, its my navy Crocs. Those shoes put me through elementary school. I eventually wore them out so much that I had to say goodbye. I tried Airwalks and sandals, but nothing compared. Then on my senior trip in New York City, a four story Crocs store gleamed at me from across the street and I bought another pair of Navy Blue Crocs. The rest is history. I wear them every morning to the lake for practice and then throughout the day to help air out my soaking feet. I love my Crocs so much, that I was in shock when it became apparent to me that people don't feel the same. Here are nine reasons why you should just throw out all of your other shoes and settle on Crocs.

1. They are waterproof.

These bad boys can take on the wettest of water. Nobody is sure what they are made of, though. The debate is still out there on foam vs. rubber. You can wear these bad boys any place water may or may not be: to the lake for practice or to the club where all the thirsty boys are. But honestly who cares because they're buoyant and water proof. Raise the roof.

2. Your most reliable support system

There is a reason nurses and swimming instructors alike swear by Crocs. Comfort. Croc's clogs will make you feel like your are walking on a cloud of Laffy Taffy. They are wide enough that your toes are not squished, and the rubbery material forms perfectly around your foot. Added bonus: The holes let in a nice breeze while riding around on your Razor Scooter.

3. Insane durability

Have you ever been so angry you could throw a Croc 'cause same? Have you ever had a Croc bitten while wrestling a great white shark? Me too. Have you ever had your entire foot rolled like a fruit roll up but had your Crocs still intact? Also me. All I know is that Seal Team 6 may or may not have worn these shoes to find and kill Osama Bin Laden. Just sayin'.

4. Bling, bling, bling

Jibbitz, am I right?! These are basically they're own money in the industry of comfortable footwear. From Spongebob to Christmas to your favorite fossil, Jibbitz has it all. There's nothing more swag-tastic than pimped out crocs. Lady. Killer.

5. So many options

From the classic clog to fashionable sneakers, Crocs offer so many options that are just too good to pass up on. They have fur lined boots, wedges, sandals, loafers, Maryjane's, glow in the dark, Minion themed, and best of all, CAMO! Where did your feet go?!

6. Affordable

Crocs: $30

Feeling like a boss: Priceless

7. Two words: Adventure Straps

Because you know that when you move the strap from casual mode chillin' in the front to behind the heal, it's like using a shell on Mario Cart.

8. Crocs cares

Okay, but for real, Crocs is a great company because they have donated over 3 million pairs of crocs to people in need around the world. Move over Toms, the Croc is in the house.

9. Stylish AF

The boys will be coming for you like Steve Irwin.

Who cares what the haters say, right? Wear with pride, and go forth in style.

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From One Nerd To Another

My contemplation of the complexities between different forms of art.


Aside from reading Guy Harrison's guide to eliminating scientific ignorance called, "At Least Know This: Essential Science to Enhance Your Life" and, "The Breakthrough: Immunotherapy and the Race to Cure Cancer" by Charles Graeber, an informative and emotional historical account explaining the potential use of our own immune systems to cure cancer, I read articles and worked on my own writing in order to keep learning while enjoying my winter break back in December. I also took a trip to the Guggenheim Museum.

I wish I was artistic. Generally, I walk through museums in awe of what artists can do. The colors and dainty details simultaneously inspire me and remind me of what little talent I posses holding a paintbrush. Walking through the Guggenheim was no exception. Most of the pieces are done by Hilma af Klint, a 20th-century Swedish artist expressing her beliefs and curiosity about the universe through her abstract painting. I was mostly at the exhibit to appease my mom (a K - 8th-grade art teacher), but as we continued to look at each piece and read their descriptions, I slowly began to appreciate them and their underlying meanings.

I like writing that integrates symbols, double meanings, and metaphors into its message because I think that the best works of art are the ones that have to be sought after. If the writer simply tells you exactly what they were thinking and how their words should be interpreted, there's no room for imagination. An unpopular opinion in high school was that reading "The Scarlet Letter" by Nathaniel Hawthorne was fun. Well, I thought it was. At the beginning of the book, there's a scene where Hawthorne describes a wild rosebush that sits just outside of the community prison. As you read, you are free to decide whether it's an image of morality, the last taste of freedom and natural beauty for criminals walking toward their doom, or a symbol of the relationship between the Puritans with their prison-like expectations and Hester, the main character, who blossoms into herself throughout the novel. Whichever one you think it is doesn't matter, the point is that the rosebush can symbolize whatever you want it to. It's the same with paintings - they can be interpreted however you want them to be.

As we walked through the building, its spiral design leading us further and further upwards, we were able to catch glimpses of af Klint's life through the strokes of her brush. My favorite of her collections was one titled, "Evolution." As a science nerd myself, the idea that the story of our existence was being incorporated into art intrigued me. One piece represented the eras of geological time through her use of spirals and snails colored abstractly. She clued you into the story she was telling by using different colors and tones to represent different periods. It felt like reading "The Scarlet Letter" and my biology textbook at the same time. Maybe that sounds like the worst thing ever, but to me it was heaven. Art isn't just art and science isn't just science. Aspects of different studies coexist and join together to form something amazing that will speak to even the most untalented patron walking through the museum halls.

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