We as humans, have many fine qualities. We are capable of a lot of things. One of the most beautiful things we are capable of happens to be forgiveness, one of our finest qualities. Some of us, however, don't use it; some of us actually abuse it.
Sometimes people expect to be forgiven, they'll do wrong and EXPECT to be forgiven. That's not okay. Forgiveness is such a beautiful thing, and it may take a lot for someone to forgive. Don't abuse that. Remember, when you're forgiving someone, it's for yourself.
There's this saying "Forgive and forget" but the truth is you're not forgetting, you're remembering without all the anger and pain. Forgiving is refreshing. It's almost like a new beginning; you're opening up to a new beginning that'll bring peace so you're able to persist despite what you went through. Maybe the things that happened had to. The experience was required for a lesson and if you spend your time all bitter, how will you move on? Without forgiving, you miss the lesson. Forgiveness is an act of letting go. So let go. So what if you forgive someone?
Forgiveness is a great thing. The only way you can fully forgive someone else, is if you forgive yourself. Forgiving yourself will allow you to forgive others. Forgiveness can be a process, it doesn't always come easily. Take your time, just don't waste it.
Part of letting go is going on with your life. You deserve to not be angry. I believe forgiveness is one of our finest qualities and we forgive constantly. Forgiveness is an act of letting go and trying to persist on, no matter how hard it is and no matter what that person has put you through. Forgive. Do it for yourself.