Wake Up and Kick Butt

Wake Up Today And Decide You Are Going To Kick Butt

The only person responsible for selling YOU short is YOURSELF.

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I am annoyingly passionate about people being the very best versions of themselves.

I have always had the mentality that every single person I interact with has an insane amount of potential, and it actually hurts me to see people let that potential go to waste. I am about to give you some things that can help to make the magic happen.

I guess you can take it or leave it, but if I were you I'd take it.

1. Passion, lots of it

You absolutely must be passionate about something.

I am certain that passion lives inside of each and every heart that inhabits the planet, and I"d suggest that you do whatever it takes to find what it is that you are passionate about. If you are having trouble pinpointing your passion, I urge you to think about what it is that sets your heart ablaze.

What is the thing that has the ability to make you the most excited and also the angriest? Find what you are passionate about and pursue it fiercely.

2. Be good to yourself 

I am pretty sure it is in our nature as humans to shame ourselves in all areas all the time. We have all heard the saying that "we are our own worst critics", and I don't know about you but I think that is such a shame.

Don't get me wrong, you should hold yourself accountable, but nothing positive comes from having negative feelings towards yourself because those things LIVE INSIDE OF YOU.

If you are doing the best you can, that is all you can do. If you aren't doing the best you can, figure out how to fix it.

3. Organize yo life

My mom is going to giggle when she reads this part because my bedroom does NOT reflect the title of #3.

With that said, I know that I am not the only one that operates best in an environment that is clean and that makes sense. I am the worst at keeping up with a planer or desk calendar, but if those things work for you, use the crap out of them. Make things easier on yourself if you can, even if it takes a lot

4. Be intentional

No one likes unintentional time or people. It isn't science, it's just the fact that as people we want to be around others who seem like they want to be there too. When you meet your friend for coffee, stay off your phone, sit on it if you have to. Ask good questions and LISTEN. If you can do that and have people who do that for you, you are off to a great start.

5. Surround yourself with support and nothing less 

In the same way that you have to be good to yourself, you have to find other people who are going to do the same. I am here to tell you that people can be toxic. If you notice those people around you, do the best you can do distance yourself. You are worth MORE THAN THAT.

6. Set all the goals

CELEBRATE REAL HARD when you're successful. Go ahead and cry if you don't meet the goals you have set for yourself, but you better keep pressing on. Make new goals. Start over. Work your butt off.

I am far from an expert on any of this, but referring to #1, it is what I am passionate about. I want people to be the best... yeah, even YOU. It is not too late for you, I promise. Start small and it can be huge.

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Everything You Will Miss If You Commit Suicide

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You won't see the sunrise or have your favorite breakfast in the morning.

Instead, your family will mourn the sunrise because it means another day without you.

You will never stay up late talking to your friends or have a bonfire on a summer night.

You won't laugh until you cry again, or dance around and be silly.

You won't go on another adventure. You won't drive around under the moonlight and stars.

They'll miss you. They'll cry.

You won't fight with your siblings only to make up minutes later and laugh about it.

You won't get to interrogate your sister's fiancé when the time comes.

You won't be there to wipe away your mother's tears when she finds out that you're gone.

You won't be able to hug the ones that love you while they're waiting to wake up from the nightmare that had become their reality.

You won't be at your grandparents funeral, speaking about the good things they did in their life.

Instead, they will be at yours.

You won't find your purpose in life, the love of your life, get married or raise a family.

You won't celebrate another Christmas, Easter or birthday.

You won't turn another year older.

You will never see the places you've always dreamed of seeing.

You will not allow yourself the opportunity to get help.

This will be the last sunset you see.

You'll never see the sky change from a bright blue to purples, pinks, oranges, and yellows meshing together over the landscape again.

If the light has left your eyes and all you see is the darkness, know that it can get better. Let yourself get better.

This is what you will miss if you leave the world today.

This is who will care about you when you are gone.

You can change lives. But I hope it's not at the expense of yours.

We care. People care.

Don't let today be the end.

You don't have to live forever sad. You can be happy. It's not wrong to ask for help.

Thank you for staying. Thank you for fighting.

Suicide is a real problem that no one wants to talk about. I'm sure you're no different. But we need to talk about it. There is no difference between being suicidal and committing suicide. If someone tells you they want to kill themselves, do not think they won't do it. Do not just tell them, “Oh you'll be fine." Because when they aren't, you will wonder what you could have done to help. Sit with them however long you need to and tell them it will get better. Talk to them about their problems and tell them there is help. Be the help. Get them assistance. Remind them of all the things they will miss in life.

If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts, call the National Suicide Prevention Hotline — 1-800-273-8255

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An Incurable Disease Doesn't Change The Love I Have For You

Because one day the one you love the most is fine and the next day they're not, it causes devastation you never truly recover from.

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Loving someone with an incurable disease is the most emotionally straining thing I have ever experienced.

My significant other and I have been together for almost six years. During the summer of 2018, we all noticed the significant changes he was going through. He had lost around fifty pounds and had a lack of appetite. We had figured something was going on, however, we didn't realize it was anything serious.

Fast forward to the Fall semester of 2018. I had visited my boyfriend and we had expressed certain concerns, such as, through the night I would try and get him to stop uncontrollably itching his legs to the point of bleeding, or that he was looking a little yellow and was exhausted all the time. After seeing his sister in November, while I was at school, she pleaded with him to go to urgent care because he did not look good. He was yellow, exhausted, and very sickly looking. We didn't realize that the urgent care visit would be the precedent of the rest of our lives.

After coming home for Thanksgiving and spending a week straight in the hospital with him, it finally set in that something was not right. Between all the vomit, getting moved for testing, the weakness, the constant calling for medications because the pain was so severe, and the almost month-long stay in the hospital, it hit me full force that something was really wrong. Words will never truly describe the emotions I was feeling, or the burden of my thoughts that I felt were too selfish to pass on anyone, so I kept them to myself.

When we finally got the diagnosis, we were surprised. PSC, otherwise known as Primary Sclerosing Cholangitis, is an incurable liver disease that affects the bile ducts which become scarred and inflamed, more likely than not lead to cirrhosis and an inevitable transplant. There was no cure, rather the only solution was a liver transplant, and even then the disease can be recurring.

I was thinking selfishly. I was torn in two. What would our future look like? Could we have children? Could we ever do the things we used to?

Loving someone with an incurable disease is a mix of emotions. There is a constant fear in the back of my mind that he is going to wake up in intense pain and have to be rushed to the hospital. There is a constant fear of every time waiting for the bi-weekly blood test results to come back, in fear that his Bilirubin spiked again or he is undergoing a flare up and needs to be hospitalized. There is a constant anxiety that one day he's going to be fine, and the next day he won't be. Even the simple things, such as laying beside one another, was a constant fear I had, due to the pain he was in every day. What if I hit him in my sleep on accident? What if I accidentally hugged a little too tightly and caused him pain?

Loving someone with an incurable disease can be a fluctuation of emotions, however, he makes it worth it.

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