It’s that time of year again--when companies shove the idea of love and romance down your throat, and single individuals feel alone because of the holiday that reminds them of their lack of a relationship status. Personally, as a perpetually single individual, I have always found the holiday pointless. I never have anyone to celebrate with, or to show my love to. However, this Valentine’s Day, I focused less on the stereotypical romantic aspects of the holiday, and more on the true sentiment. The whole point of Valentine’s Day is to celebrate the love in your life, and people in your life who you love. You don’t have to be in a romantic relationship to have love, and celebrate that love. So this Valentine’s Day, I focused on the people I love and make sure they are aware of how much they mean to me. These are the people who truly deserve recognition this holiday that I highly suggest everyone reaches out and expresses their love to.
1. Your Parents.
It may sound cliché, but your parents love you more than most people in this world and deserve your love and appreciation more than anyone else. They sacrificed countless hours, weekends, and years of their lives to make you happy. It is only right to call them up this Valentine’s Day and tell them that you love them.
2. Your friends.
Your friends are the people who have been with you no matter what, they are the people you are most likely to laugh with, cry with, and share super embarrassing moments with. Unlike many romantic relationships, friends tend to last longer and see you at both your best and worst. Make sure your friends know how much you love them for putting up with you, day in and day out.
3. Your Pets.
Let’s get real, some of the most beloved people in your life (and yes, my dog counts as a person) is your pet. They love you unconditionally; all they ask of you is food, attention, and love in return. Your life would be incomplete without your pet at your side, so make sure you give them an extra special treat.
4. The people you see every day.
This could be your mailman, barista, the janitor in your building, or your next door neighbor. Regardless of who they are, they play an important role in your life, and although you may not love them personally, I’m sure you love and appreciate what they do or add to your daily life. Give them a friendly reminder of this; I’m sure they’ll welcome it.
5. Yourself.
In a world filled with hate, body shaming, and a whole bunch of other nastiness, it is easy to lose self-confidence and stop loving yourself. Take this holiday to remember that you are a beautiful, unique, and amazing individual who should always love yourself, no matter what.
Hopefully, you all enjoyed your Valentine’s Day! Continue to celebrate all week.
