How to Be Unpopular on Dating Websites
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4 Ways To Be Unpopular On Dating Websites

Unpopular on Dating Websites

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4 Ways To Be Unpopular On Dating Websites

Unspoken rules are the hidden roads that guide our human interactions, and every culture has them. They tell you when and how to act, and understanding them can be the difference between being perceived as an awkward, suspicious person, and being the person everybody loves.

Like every other culture and subculture, dating websites have their own universal sets of rules, from users on major players like Tinder and e-Harmony to those on emerging game-changers like interracial dating |Interracialdatingcentral.

These rules guide the everyday interactions on these platforms, and violating them is a surefire way to blacklist yourself. Here are some of the easiest ways to get yourself a bad reputation on any dating website.

1. Using only one profile picture.

Your profile picture is about the most important thing you can have on your dating website profile, but having just one is probably doing you more harm than good.

Apart from being an avenue to measure your attractiveness, it also serves as a medium to read into your kind of person. For instance, having a picture with friends shows you as a nice, friendly person.

However, having just one picture on your profile raises a lot of question marks over your personality. Do you have low self-esteem? Do you just hate pictures? Do you not care enough to upload more than one? Is the photo even really yours?

Do yourself a favor and add a couple more pictures.

2. Lead with sexting.

Yes, we know you want to get laid, but do you really need to lead with that?

This one problem is unfortunately way more common with men than women. Interestingly, the people on the receiving end of these messages often find them disgusting – makes one wonder why people send them in the first place.

Honesty is the best policy when it comes to building a relationship, but too much honesty, especially about sex, can ruin the relationship before you begin.

3. Neediness

She finally replied to you, and you both seem to be hitting it off. What's the next thing to do? Make sure she never has a moment to be free from your awesomeness, right? Wrong.

In as much as people want to mingle, they also want their personal space. Being always available can easily be perceived as being needy, and no one likes a needy person.

Sending 20 straight unreplied messages isn't going to do you any favors.

4. Bragging

Honestly, it's okay to brag a little bit. Anything outside of that could do serious damage to your chances on any dating website.

You may want to tone it down a bit on the mentions of how much time you spend at the gym or how often you 'travel around the world.'

If potential dates perceive you as a materialistic person who will constantly rub achievements in their faces, chances are they will swipe left on your profile.

Having a great life is good, but how you present it may just be the difference between success and failure.

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