When you grow up in a big family it changes the way you look at things. It shapes you into the person you are and helps you decide if you want your own big family one day. While every family has their bad days, being a part of something big is nice (you can always find someone who isn't mad at you.) Being in a big family has also taught you that not everything is always sunshine and roses.
Even though your family is bound to get on your nerves at times, in the end, you can always count on them to be there for you.
You always have somebody to hang out with.
If you're bored, no problem! Just call up any one of your siblings and it's guaranteed at least one of them is willing to hang out with you.
Calling "dibs" on the bathroom.
Every one of you has been there before. Picture this: you call dibs on the bathroom but still end up racing each other there because they have the nerve to steal it from you!
Calling "shotgun" on car rides.
Similar to calling dibs on the bathroom, calling shotgun is very serious too. Nobody ever wanted to sit in the backseat with each other but the majority of the time, the oldest got seniority over the shotgun rule.. *rolls eyes*
"You mess with one of us, you mess with all of us."
Being in a big family is basically having your own mafia at all times. Don't mess with one of us unless you want a visit from the whole house.
Coming home to find out someone ate your leftovers.
It doesn't matter if you write your name in bold letters on the box, someone will eat your food AND DENY IT. They are all quick to point fingers but you always have your suspicions.
Experiences to learn and teach.
Being in a big family means the age gaps can range so it's easy to find yourself giving advice to younger siblings, while also getting advice from the ones older than you! This is also a fun way of getting closer. You can tell embarrassing, funny stories and find out things about your brothers and sisters you've never heard before!
It makes you tough.
Nothing compares to when you and your family roast each other. Everyone feels comfortable enough to be brutally honest and sometimes it hurts, but you know it comes from a place of love, (for the most part).
Your differences aren't all that different.
Each individual has their own personality, but you always see a little bit of yourself or another family member in each other. You agree and disagree on some things, but at the end of the day, you agree to disagree.
Never ending love, support and guidance.
One of the best things is knowing you have a huge support system. You can always count on your family for anything. They won't judge you (too much) and are always guiding you in the right direction. Tough love is real but just remember, they do it because they love you.
Cherish the moments you have with your family whether it be big or small especially around this holiday season!
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