My boyfriend and I have a relationship where honesty and open communication is a must. I don't bug him about where he's going because he tells me beforehand. He doesn't need to question where I'm going when I leave the house because he's either with me or already knows what I'm doing. Our relationship is built on honesty, openness, and trust - why should I need to be paranoid and check in with his location if I doubt that he's doing what he says he is? Shouldn't asking him and believing his answer be enough?
I will admit, there have been times where he hasn't answered his phone so I double text him or call to see if he's okay. I don't wonder if he's out with other people, I don't wonder if he's doing anything he's not supposed to be doing. I know that if he hasn't contacted me he's either:
a) Busy doing what he said he's doing
b) Running late doing what he said he's doing
c) His phone died while he doing what he said he's doing
d) Actually in trouble (in which case, his friends/family/whoever he's with would contact me)
When you're in a trusting relationship, there should be no need to check your boyfriend's location every hour. I don't "make" my boyfriend turn on his read receipts, he chooses to do it just like I chose to do it for him because it makes life easier. Yes, I like it when he texts me all the time, but I understand that he has a life, too (like being a college athlete, needing sleep, getting to class, having other friends, etc...).
I'm not a psycho girlfriend for wanting to be invested in my boyfriend's life but I'm also not a hands-off girlfriend for letting him live his own life. I don't envy the people who have the right to wonder and worry about what their S.O. is doing 24/7 but I also don't envy the people who CHOOSE to not know what their bae is up to.
A relationship is about honest communication and above everything else, respect and trust. If you have those things, you won't need a location on a map or a paranoid thought in your head.