True Life: I Love My Major

True Life: I Love My Major

Weird, right?

Choosing a major can be tricky, and finding a major that you love can be even trickier. Some people go into college with the idea that you can choose a major and stick with it for the rest of your collegiate career. In some cases, this situation happens (and props to you guys, you must have your life together), but in most cases, you'll end up changing your major at least once. It's difficult to determine exactly what you want to do with your life at such a young age, but it's possible, and I know it's possible because I've done it.

At the beginning of my freshman year, I was lost. I thought I wanted to go in a path that is completely opposite of what path I'm going down currently. I was stuck in a major that I thought was the right choice for me initially, but soon learned I would rather do anything else in the world than what I was studying. I'm here to tell you that this kind of thing happens all of the time and is perfectly okay. Your life won't crumble in to a zillion little pieces if you hate your major, but don't let yourself stay with something you hate. I remember being nervous about changing my major, but in retrospect, it's one of the best decisions I've ever made. Reflecting on my thoughts made me think about what I really wanted to do in life, and where I truly wanted to be. I changed my major at the end of my freshman year and I have been reaping the benefits ever since then.

My advice to you is this: find your passion, your drive, your motivation. Find what makes you the happiest. Are you passionate about science? Go with that. Does writing give you thrill? Write until your hand goes numb. Is history your thing? Absorb as much information as you can. You know you the best, so go with what you want to do. Don't think about what your future salary will be, think about how much you will enjoy your life if you end up doing something you love. My father always used to tell me that if you go in to work every day loving what you do, you'll never work a day in your life. It's taken me a while to comprehend that, but now that I do, I swear by it.

So go and find what you love. Take time to explore the inner workings of your mind. Remember that it's perfectly fine to change your mind about things, even if you change your mind often. What matters most is the end game, and ultimately you want to be happy. Never stick with something for the wrong reasons. Do what you love and love what you do, and I promise you'll end up loving your work.

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If You've Ever Been Called Overly-Emotional Or Too Sensitive, This Is For You

Despite what they have told you, it's a gift.

Emotional: a word used often nowadays to insult someone for their sensitivity towards a multitude of things.

If you cry happy tears, you're emotional. If you express (even if it's in a healthy way) that something is bothering you, you're sensitive. If your hormones are in a funk and you just happen to be sad one day, you're emotional AND sensitive.

Let me tell you something that goes against everything people have probably ever told you. Being emotional and being sensitive are very, very good things. It's a gift. Your ability to empathize, sympathize, and sensitize yourself to your own situation and to others' situations is a true gift that many people don't possess, therefore many people do not understand.

Never let someone's negativity toward this gift of yours get you down. We are all guilty of bashing something that is unfamiliar to us: something that is different. But take pride in knowing God granted this special gift to you because He believes you will use it to make a difference someday, somehow.

This gift of yours was meant to be utilized. It would not be a part of you if you were not meant to use it. Because of this gift, you will change someone's life someday. You might be the only person that takes a little extra time to listen to someone's struggle when the rest of the world turns their backs.

In a world where a six-figure income is a significant determinant in the career someone pursues, you might be one of the few who decides to donate your time for no income at all. You might be the first friend someone thinks to call when they get good news, simply because they know you will be happy for them. You might be an incredible mother who takes too much time to nurture and raise beautiful children who will one day change the world.

To feel everything with every single part of your being is a truly wonderful thing. You love harder. You smile bigger. You feel more. What a beautiful thing! Could you imagine being the opposite of these things? Insensitive and emotionless?? Both are unhealthy, both aren't nearly as satisfying, and neither will get you anywhere worth going in life.

Imagine how much richer your life is because you love other's so hard. It might mean more heartache, but the reward is always worth the risk. Imagine how much richer your life is because you are overly appreciative of the beauty a simple sunset brings. Imagine how much richer your life is because you can be moved to tears by the lessons of someone else's story.

Embrace every part of who you are and be just that 100%. There will be people who criticize you for the size of your heart. Feel sorry for them. There are people who are dishonest. There are people who are manipulative. There are people who are downright malicious. And the one thing people say to put you down is "you feel too much." Hmm...

Sounds like more of a compliment to me. Just sayin'.

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My First College Gal Pal Road Trip Was Amazing

Every girl should have one good girls trip.


In some way or another, everybody has a list of things they want to do in their lives before it's all over. After all, we're human. There's adventure to be had in every life. One thing I have always wanted to do before I grew too old and grey was go on a road trip with my gal pals to the beach. A couple weeks ago, I achieved this memorable milestone, and it allowed me to open up to new surroundings and experiences.

On this trip, I went with two of my friends from college, Kait and Lindsey, to visit my roommate Elizabeth in Virginia Beach. This was pretty big for Lindsey and I because neither of us had been to Virginia Beach before. Thankfully Elizabeth and Kait knew their way around the city, so we never got lost on our way to and fro.

Like most vacations, my favorite parts probably took place at the beach. I'm always at utter peace stomping through mushy sand or leaning down to splash the salty water that tries to knock my short self over. We took pictures and did something us college girls rarely have time to do especially in school: Relax.

The four of us did not live up to the crazed stereotype of girl trips in movies. Although I finally got a chance to sing along to Taylor Swift in a car ride with my friends, so that's always a plus. We played "Top Golf" one day, and by some miracle, I actually won the second game by a fair amount after much humiliation in the first one. We visited some of Elizabeth's family, and I finally got to meet her giant dog Apollo (I call him 'Wolf Dog'). Everyday was another chance to ask with enthusiasm: "So what are we doing today?"

Our trip wasn't like the movies where we all cried or confessed our deepest darkest secrets. Everything the four of us shared was laughter and this calm feeling of being at home, in the chaotic peace of each other's company. We understand each other a little better due to finally seeing what we're like outside of Longwood University. After this, all I can say is that we're most definitely planning the next one!

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