With the semester drawing to a close, I can't help but come up with an overview of what I have learned upon being a transfer student and being involved in the transfer process. To anyone thinking about transferring or going through this new adventure, this is my advice for you.

1. The process takes time.

It takes time to grow relationships, it takes time to find your place on campus and it takes time to get involved. I shortly realized that I wasn't able to do it all at once. I was frantic at the beginning of the semester because I always felt behind -- behind on joining clubs, on knowing about campus events and behind on getting to know people. What I came to realize is that it was okay. Through time I would adjust, through time I would be able to get involved in activities on campus, and through time I would be able to meet more people.

2. Effort is a huge deal.

When I decided to switch schools, I also switched chapters within my sorority. I made a contentious effort to know girls' names right off the bat, and to get to know them on a deeper level. I had to put in the effort to include myself in hangouts or study sessions. The more you put in the effort to grow in relationships with others, the faster friendships and acceptance can occur.

3. It's okay to also not know.

I was embarrassed to ask questions when I first arrived on campus in fear of sounding dumb, or it would emphasize I am new. What I learned very quickly is hundreds of college students transfer for numerous reasons every semester. It is not something to be ashamed of, and professors and students will be very understanding, but you may have to bring it to their attention.

4. Rely on others.

There are great people I've met this semester who have given me a shoulder to cry on or who have calmed me down in a state of panic. Thank you to the numerous people who included me on campus. Yes I am still adjusting and learning, but I appreciate you answering my questions when I don't know, and for taking the time to get to know me, even though it's another year in. The process of transferring can be so scary and overwhelming, but relying on others allows you to feel like you're not in this alone.

My heart goes out to all those that have transferred, because it is a difficult process and mindset is everything. You will get through it, but remember everything will not be perfect right away. Time will become your best friend and keep patient, for better things are ahead. A long road is bound for mistakes, changes, and new opportunities. I've made my fair share of mistakes and had more than enough struggles this semester, but it is the happiness and acceptance I have experienced in this new chapter that keeps me going. If I am in a healthier and more suited environment now and that is what's most important.