The Top 6 Questions You Know Your Family Will Ask You This Holiday Season

The Top 6 Questions You Know Your Family Will Ask You This Holiday Season

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It's that time of year again when we finally get to reunite with our loved ones. Christmas Day means family reunions, which equals a mix of emotions.

Why? We stuff ourselves with homemade meals, attend family parties, catch up with absolutely everybody's lives and continue to make memories that'll last a lifetime.

So why is it so bad? Well, the longer the night gets, the more questions they start to ask us college kids. You know exactly what I mean. The "Wow time flies!! Look how old you are" suddenly takes a turn for the worst, and you have your aunts, uncles, and cousins either roasting you or interrogating you.

Time to prepare some answers to the very obvious questions they will ask. We can't let them catch us off guard.

Nope. Not this season.

In fact, we can even make this into a drinking game. One shot for each question listed below.

1. "So, how are the boyfriends/girlfriends?"

Not sure if they ask us this question because they already know that the answer is "he/she is non-existent" or they genuinely want to know. All I know is that this question just reminds us all that we've entered the holiday season solo, once again, just like the last one, and the one before that one. :)

2. "How were you're finals? Straight A's?"

Look, the last two weeks have been mentally, physically and emotionally exhausting. I'm getting flashbacks just thinking about it. We were living off of blood, sweat, and tears in the library cramming for our finals. It's too soon to take us back to that state of mind. Next question.

3. "I'm sure there's been more partying than studying though, right?"

Me: "Actually, in my case no. There has been more studying than partying. Trust me."

Family: *looks at parents*

"Do you believe that?"

Parents: "I would really love to."

Family & Parents: *start laughing*

Me: "You know what, honestly, it's fine. Believe what you want."

4. "Now, what are your plans for your future? What do you want to do with your life?"

You know, we think about this question a lot. But we ponder less on its response. Why? Because it's beyond stressful to think about, there are too many moving pieces, and we're busy getting past each semester alone.

5. "How is that friend of yours? I don't see any pictures of the two of you."

Listen, that friendship boat has sailed. A snake is a snake I tell you.

6. "So, Are you sure no Boyfriends/Girlfriends?"


MAKE IT STOP.


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5 Reasons Why Your Siblings Are Your Lifeline During the Holidays

The holiday season can get stressful but no worries because your siblings will be by your side to help you get though it.

The holidays are a time when you get together with the whole family. No matter if you're related or not when you get a good amount of people together for any amount of time there is bound to be a fight and personality clashes. In the holiday season, stress levels are high which makes for an, even more, trickier situation and sometimes you just need someone who knows what you are going through and can relate. My twin brother is the one who keeps me sane during my time at home at the holidays and I am sure your sibling is too and here's how...

1. They are the ones who know to save you a seat at the Christmas dinner table.


So that you don't have to sit by anyone you might not want to sit by.

2. They can always save you when your family members keep asking your significant other (or lack of) and you just can't take it anymore.


3. They can be you're best friend when you're back home and off your normal college schedule.


4. They can help you shop for family Christmas gifts so that you don't have to do it all on your own.


5. They are there to annoy you because at the end of the day they are your sibling and that's their job.


It is the best time of the year and being with family is great but when the season greetings become too much to handle on your own you can always count on your siblings to help you get through it or at least where you don't have to suffer through it on your own. So, give your siblings an extra hug this holiday season and be grateful you don't have to go through this crazy world alone.

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10 Perks Of Staying At School Instead Of Going Home For Break

Sometimes, college is just more fun.

Caution- I'm about to present a viewpoint that many college kids will detest and disagree with.

Alright, here it is... I don't like going on breaks from school.

*Gasps arise from audience, desks are flipped, people storm out of rooms, someone has a heart attack*

Yes, yes, I know it's not a popular opinion to have, especially considering how much we all want to be done with our schooling for life and just move into our careers already. I get it- breaks provide a way for students to relieve stress for awhile and relax from the constant pressures of taking exams and writing papers. Now, please don't get me wrong, I value taking a rest just as much as the next average college Joe does.

HOWEVER, there are some aspects of being at school that I believe every student needs deep down that we just don't receive when we come back home and do nothing for three weeks. **Disclaimer, this viewpoint does not apply to those of you that actually did something productive with your lives over break. Props to you, an inspiration to us all.** Nevertheless, for those of us who spent our winter vacations as couch potatoes, eating our body weight in cookies every day, here are ten, very valid reasons why being at school can be better than being at home.

1. You, guaranteed, won't get bored.

Hmm, spend the whole day lying on the couch watching Hallmark movie specials and slowly slipping into insanity or go out with your friends and do something fun around campus? Tough one...

2. You will actually have friends.

Chances are, if you go out of state to college, your friends all live in different parts of the country... making you alone and sad over every break. No thanks.

3. Your time is your own.

During the holidays, there are so many family responsibilities and things that have been planned for you, there's not a lot of time to spend doing what you'd like to do. At college, you can take a 5-hour nap, go out with your friends, or stay in the dorm and have a personal spa night. No one can stop you!

4. You'll have a somewhat-decent sleep schedule.

Going on break is the worst because you grow acclimated to waking up at certain times for class or work, which is all put on hold when you go home for a month. You get used to sleeping in until 3 PM and staying up watching Netflix until 5 AM. It's a brutal awakening whenever you do go back.

5. Back up, you'll actually have a schedule and a routine in the first place.

Those of us who value routine and keeping ourselves busy go absolutely insane over breaks. At school, we have our whole days planned out and a set routine that keeps us active. At home, we have uh... none of that.

6. You won't have to deal with crazy family drama.

If you have a big family and lots of people visiting for the holidays, you know how stressful everyone gets and the tension that builds over those weeks. Wouldn't it be nice if instead of hiding in your room to get away from Aunt Mildred's questions about why you don't have a job or a boyfriend yet, you didn't have to worry about any of that?

7. You'll have constant activities and events to look forward to.

I mean, yeah, Christmas is cool and New Year's can be fun, but those are the only highlights of winter vacation. In between, you're doing a lot of lying around and staring at the ceiling or your phone screen. Staying at school means you will always have events to look forward to, whether it's games, socials, parties, or even just hangouts with your friends.

8. You won't eat everything in the fridge.

The holidays have a tendency to add a few pounds onto all of us, especially if you indulge in Christmas cookies more than the average person (@me). Frequent trips to the kitchen can be avoided if you just stayed at school and kept up with the gym routine.

9. You only have to do chores for yourself.

When college kids come home, many of us are automatically brought into the weekly chores schedule... meaning folding laundry for 5 people, instead of one. Wouldn't it be great to just have to worry about cleaning up your own messes?

10. You have your own space.

Over the holidays, many of us are under obligation to spend time with the family or room with relatives to ensure everyone fits. There's not a lot of personal space or time. Staying at school means getting to go back to your dorm whenever you want and being able to plop onto bed and do nothing for hours if you so desire. It's absolutely beautiful.

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