To The Person Who Thought They Weren't Good Enough

To The Person Who Thought They Weren't Good Enough

Guess what? You are.

Here's to the person who thought they weren't good enough to succeed.

You tried to make the best of it, but unfortunately, school isn't for everyone. You were ok with some materials, but you weren't really the best at the ones that "mattered." You were good at other things, but that still didn't stop you from feeling awful whenever you would bring your report card home and saw your parents' disappointed look in their eyes.

Whenever you would go to family events, you had every family member come up to you and ask you what you were going to study in the future, and you would come up empty-handed. This was followed by brutal comments about how your other relatives were doing great in life.

"If only you could be like them."

Here's to the person who thought they weren't good enough for love.

It's difficult enough to follow in somebody's footsteps, but what's more difficult is to follow footsteps that aren't even there to be your guide. What's more difficult is the expectation to make a name for yourself when you don't even know who you are.

Love, although it is so small, can have such a big meaning and such a huge expectation of someone. Many do not know that love comes with such a high amount of commitment; it's something that we're all not ready for. Love is a word that can have a different meaning; love is meant to be different for all of us.

Relationships are tedious and difficult despite them being so sought out, so you sometimes can't understand why it's so difficult for you to find one. Suddenly, you hear whispers behind your head, family members wondering if something's wrong with you, if there's possibly a secret you're not letting them know.

Here's to the person who thought they weren't good enough.

You thought you weren't enough, but guess what? You are.

Not knowing what you want to be in life is okay; not knowing how you want to execute your plan is also okay. You not knowing is okay, too. Time can sometimes be cruel, however, it is also fair and just.

Love happens to us all differently at different times, different ages, different moments. You not being in love is okay, and you loving differently is also okay.

Life isn't about having things figured out: it's about not knowing what to do and to live the fullest until you can't anymore. Life isn't just about schoolwork and love: it's about experiences, moments, laughter, and fun.

To the person who thought they weren't good enough, guess what? You are.

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To the girl who isn't graduating college "on time,"

I promise, you will get there eventually, and you will walk across that graduation stage with the biggest smile on your face.

You may have a different journey than the people you grew up with, and that is OKAY. You may have some twists and turns along the way, a few too many major changes, a life change, you may have taken most of a semester off to try to figure your life out, and you're doing the best you can.

Your family and your friends don't think less of you or your accomplishments, they are proud of your determination to get your degree.

They are proud of the woman you are becoming. They don't think of you as a failure or as someone any less awesome than you are. You're getting your degree, you're making moves towards your dreams and the life that you have always wanted, so please stop beating yourself up while you see people graduating college on time and getting a job or buying a car.

Your time will come, you just keep doing what you need to do in order to get on that graduation stage.

Your path is set out for you, and you will get there with time but also with patience. The place you're at right now is where you are supposed to be. You are going to thrive and you are going to be the best version of you when you graduate and start looking for a company that you will be proud to work for. Don't look on social media and feel less than, because at least you're still working towards your degree that you are finally passionate about. You will be prepared. You will be ready once the time comes and you cross the stage, move away, and start your journey in whatever field you're going into.

Don't question yourself, and be confident in your abilities.

With love,

A girl who isn't graduating on time

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Goodbye School, Hello Real World

I'm ready for ya!


It's starting to hit me.

I've been in school, year after year, since kindergarten. Maybe even pre-school!

Now, I'm about to graduate with my bachelors in communication and I couldn't be more proud of myself. I'll say it. I often sugarcoat it or suppress it but d*mn it. I'm going to applaud myself. It was hard work. It took a lot of motivation, determination, (caffeine), and willpower to get to where I am today. I worked my ass off.

That being said, I can't help but think... What is life without due dates? What is life like without scrambling to turn in an assignment that's due at 11:59 PM? What is life like with actual sleep? Sleep? I don't know her.

Like I keep telling my boyfriend and my parents, I don't have it all figured out. At least not right now. But I will, and I'm in no rush to land my dream job right now. If anything, I want to take a year to myself. I want to travel. I want to sleep in if I d*mn well please! I want to read as many books as I want. I want to write till my fingers fall off (OK, maybe not that).

You get the jist.

I'm free. I can do and be whatever I want. And you know what? That's terrifying.

I'm lost. I've followed this structure for so long. Now what?

I don't have all the answers yet. But for now, at least right at this very moment, I'm so thankful to have been able to receive such an amazing education. And to be able to say I'm graduating with my bachelors in communication at 21 is an accomplishment in itself.

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