To The Introverts
Start writing a post
Relationships

To The Introverts

Your best friend may be an extrovert if.

6
To The Introverts
Buzzfeed

I have always felt a natural attraction towards introverted people. The more socially awkward and cripplingly anxious you are, the more likely I am to want to be your friend. Maybe it is the joy I feel whenever you finally come out of your shell, or maybe its my secret, sadistic love of fueling another human's anxiety (in the most innocent ways, I promise), but I love befriending those who don't have many other friends. Because of this, I always try and put myself in the shoes of those who choose to put up with my embarrassment and in my research, I have compiled a list of the most common things I, along with every other extrovert, do with my best friends. Your best friend may be an extrovert if:

You are asked (forced) to take endless photos.

If you're beautifully extroverted best friend is anything like me, every party/social gathering/public outing is filled with the constant begging of photographic evidence, because did we really hang out if no one on Instagram is there to like it?

You are double (quadruple) texted.

I am 100 percent certain that if I look at the last five conversations I had via text message, they will all contain a single sentence separated into multiple texts. It adds dramatic effect, OK?

You are embarrassed by proxy.

Things that embarrass the normal human being do not phase us extroverts for we are born with a natural defense from the haters. Sadly, our loved ones of the introverted variety do not have these hater shades equipped at all times and are thus exposed to the odd stares and judging whispers caused directly by the actions of their friend. I'm sorry we do this to you all.

You can't keep up with our name dropping.

With extroverts comes large circles. With large circles comes large amounts of gossip. Not everyone is born with the ability to simultaneously spill tea about 17 different people at once all while discussing the latest episode of "Keeping Up with the Kardashians," so sometimes you'll have to remind us to slow down and explain.

You have become used to human contact.

In my experience, introverts don't usually like physical affection. Well, that doesn't fly with me. I'm all for respecting personal boundaries, but odds are, if your best friend is an extrovert, you have come to accept that a constant barrage of hugs, high-fives and random pats on the head are all a natural part of our friendship. And who knows, some of you may have even grown to like it!

You are constantly told that you are loved.

No matter what you do, no matter how much we annoy you, know that we love you. Every time we drag you onto the dance floor when you don't feel like dancing, every time we invite you to come sit in the student union with us for no reason, and every time we scream "I love you," in the most public of places, just know it is because we really, truly and irrevocably love you.

To my introverts, I leave you with this: you are amazing, and we appreciate the balance you bring to our lives.

Sincerely,

The Extroverts of the World

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

41944
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

26359
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less
Adulting

Unlocking Lake People's Secrets: 15 Must-Knows!

There's no other place you'd rather be in the summer.

951559
Group of joyful friends sitting in a boat
Haley Harvey

The people that spend their summers at the lake are a unique group of people.

Whether you grew up going to the lake, have only recently started going, or have only been once or twice, you know it takes a certain kind of person to be a lake person. To the long-time lake people, the lake holds a special place in your heart, no matter how dirty the water may look.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Top 10 Reasons My School Rocks!

Why I Chose a Small School Over a Big University.

136330
man in black long sleeve shirt and black pants walking on white concrete pathway

I was asked so many times why I wanted to go to a small school when a big university is so much better. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure a big university is great but I absolutely love going to a small school. I know that I miss out on big sporting events and having people actually know where it is. I can't even count how many times I've been asked where it is and I know they won't know so I just say "somewhere in the middle of Wisconsin." But, I get to know most people at my school and I know my professors very well. Not to mention, being able to walk to the other side of campus in 5 minutes at a casual walking pace. I am so happy I made the decision to go to school where I did. I love my school and these are just a few reasons why.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments