This one's to the girls who love with their entire hearts, who pour all of themselves into the relationships, into the people, into the family members, the friends, and the men they love. Don't ever change.
Some will call you an emotional train wreck, others call you the life of the party, but you know what? You're the girl whose opinions are never hidden, whose emotions are laid bare. You're unpredictable with no filter most days. You're a sensitive soul who could jump for joy today, yet explode like a volcano of tears tomorrow. You're fiercely loyal to everyone you love.
On the surface, you seem like a hassle that most guys can do without. Most will think they don't want the drama that surrounds this "diva." She's the distraction a successful man doesn't need. Yet the girl who wears her heart on her sleeve is beyond great "girlfriend material."
Don't let this world make you harsh because it doesn't understand you. Don't let life turn you cold.
You risk the pain to love, because what's happiness without some sadness? What's love worth without the risk? Sure, you might get down when someone hurts you, but you get back up. With that being said, getting back up takes time.
You love deeply and grieve deeply. Perhaps your greatest strength is also your greatest downfall, but instead of mistaking it for weakness, consider it a sign that your love is true and profound.
You dedicate yourself to make things work. You don't invest your time into someone you aren't 100% sure about. Relationships take work and you want to make it work.
You love and don't look back with regret. You know that every relationship, both good and bad, has built you.
You have been hurt, but that hasn't stopped you from giving up on love. You've had your fair share of loss and loneliness, but you still choose to love.
Honestly, you care too much, about things and people, about the ones you've loved, and the relationships you've been in. But guess what?
It is OK to be like that. You have a lot of feelings to share, a lot of heart to put in, and a lot of love to give. You are too much.
But let me tell you something else, that's more than OK.
Your pour yourself into every aspect of your life, even love, and that's perfectly fine. It's alright to keep believing in love and to forgive those who have hurt you.
This does not make you weak. So please, never stop caring and loving with that big, beautiful heart of yours. Because for the right person, you won't be too much. You will be the perfect amount.