After going on a couple of amazing dates with your guy, you think everything is going fine. He texts you every day saying "Good morning beautiful" and "I can't wait to see you again." But suddenly, or perhaps not so suddenly, everything changes. The lovely "good morning" texts stop and the everyday texting and phone calls die out. You ask him what the problem is and he replies with "I'm just so busy" or "I have a lot on my plate." You give him the benefit of the doubt, hoping one day he will finally return your texts and you two would go back to the way it always was, but it doesn't. Still you keep hoping.

Well, stop. This all boils down to the fact that he's just not into you. Even though you want things to be different, I promise they won't be. Yeah, he said he wanted to hang out with you but he never gave a specific time when. Sure, he said he missed you and wanted to see you but he never gave a date for you to actually meet up. Frankly, he can tell you all the things you want to hear because he knows he can take it all away. He gets a power trip from having this control over others, and you are just playing into his game.

Guys in today's time are a very interesting gender. They scream that women are innately crazy and dispensable. Women believe these notions and to not act "crazy" they will simply accept how a guy is treating them without question or argument. To show that they are indispensable, they will do anything possible to gain the guys affection, as best as she can. But the truth is, a guy won't suddenly become the man of your dreams and will only change for the girl he loves. That girl isn't you, otherwise, he wouldn't be playing these kinds of games with you.

To the girl doing all this, you deserve better. You deserve a guy who will text you back. You deserve a guy who will love you as much as you love him. You deserve so much better than what this man boy has been giving you but the only way you are going to find the guy who will treat you right is if you stop giving the wrong boy attention.

Sometimes you won't be the right one for a guy and that's O.K. But never let a guy use you, because in the end, he only sees you as a thing until he gets bored. One of the hardest things to come to terms with is not being what someone wants, but that doesn't mean you are any less of a woman. If the guy you are with can't see your worth, then why waste your time with him?

When you find that guy who treats you the way you deserve, it will be amazing. He will love you for exactly how you are and won't want you to change a thing. And the best part is, he won't be playing any games. Keep looking because one day, you will find a guy who is worth your time.