To The Friend Who Thought She Was Better Than Us
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To The Friend Who Thought She Was Better Than Us

You actually weren't, but it's whatever.

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To The Friend Who Thought She Was Better Than Us
Craig Dennis

I don't know why you did or said the things that you did to us, but it hurt. It hurt a lot. It hurt all of us. Yes, we got over it really quickly, and eventually our sadness just became anger – but that's where things truly fell apart. What really bothered us most was that you spread lies and acted like you were above us, when in reality your actions were much worse than ours. We were a team – a family – and you ruined that.

You decided that you were too good for the rest of us, that we were below you, and you destroyed all of us because of that. You decided that we didn't live up to your standards, so we couldn't be part of your life. I'm really sorry that my lifestyle was not good enough for you. I am also really sorry that one day you'll be out in the real world and you won't have people to fall back on because you dismissed all of your friends from your life.

There will come a time where your mom and dad won't be able to pay for you to win and they won't be the reason you get what you want. You will be there sitting and wondering where in life you messed up. Well, here I am telling you that this is it. I am not saying this begging for you to come back and join our family, I am saying this because you are no longer welcome.

You are no longer allowed to hurt us over and over again so that you can get your way. You are no longer allowed to control our lives and try to force us to live the way that you do. Every part of me wants to hate you, but I can't because I just feel bad for you. You're in this place with so many people and you have no one. I wish I could do something, but at the same time, I am glad that I can't. I am glad that you are now forced to live life on your own and you are going to have to learn how to be kind and care about people other than yourself in order to make friends. It will be hard because that is not something that can be done for you. You will have to learn how to do that on your own and it won't be easy, especially not for you. I don't mean for that to sound as negative as it does, but in all honesty, you need to work on your life in the "friend" department.

You have to learn that you can't control every aspect of people's lives and you can't act like you are better than every single person you know because the fact of the matter is that you are not better than anyone. News flash - we are all equal here, home dog. I am actually pretty glad that you thought you were so much better than us because now we can be ourselves and be proud of who we are as human beings. So I hope you have a super great life. Good luck with your life and making friends.

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