Your pitiful excuse of "we've been together for a year, and I'm tired of doing the same thing. I'm 17, and being in a relationship is getting old..." is pathetic. Let alone I cannot forget the fact that you had very little respect for my sister as you ignored her for the entire day before choosing to break up with her over a text.

My sister spent over a year investing her time and her heart into someone who crushed it in less than two minutes in a single text message because she wouldn't have sex with you.

It is completely normal for people to just lose interest in each other. That happens, and when it does we just need to respect ourselves and move on.

But let me explain to you that the way you chose to handle this and underlining reasoning behind it shows how much of a coward and disgusting pig that you are. You are an awful little boy who knows nothing about respecting girls nor their feelings.

I don't know why she shed the tears that she did for you, so obviously, she liked you and might have even loved you, or so she thought. She may hurt now and will for awhile, but it won't last long.

My sister is a beautiful young woman who loves fiercely. She is a child of Christ who is worthy of someone who loves her for her and not just her body or the pleasure that she can provide to someone else.

Seeing her this upset over someone likes you disgusts me. This is something that we all wish we could protect our loved ones over, but unfortunately, it's out of our hands.

I don't blame you for "falling out of love", but for ultimately leading her on and then completely blindsiding her by treating her like trash all because you were bored because she wouldn't give it up to you.

You slipped the rug right from beneath her feet and caused her to stumble hard, and I am not okay with it.

You could have handled this with grace and respect for her as a person. But because you didn't you showed her and everyone who cares about her who you really are and how crappy you are. (And that's me being nice.)

From day one I have seen completely past everything that she has ever told me about you, but because you made her happy I sucked it up, listened, and hoped that I would be wrong.

I held my tongue because my sister was "happy" and liked you, even though I sure couldn't understand why.

Well, guess what? I was right and I hate every ounce of being so in this situation.

But let me be honest for a second and tell you that you just did her a huge favor.

See, my incredibly beautiful and hardworking sister is going to move on and never look back.

She is going to be happier than she's ever been and realize how completely blinded she was by you and even question what the heck she was thinking.

I cannot wait to see who the next person is to step into her life and give her everything that she deserves and more. Someone who will hopefully value her and her worthwhile respecting her every decision. I pray that he will be supportive, caring, compassionate and loving among many other qualities.

While you're still hurting girl after girl after girl, she's going to experience what true happiness looks and feels like.

And the best part will be that she won't even give you a second thought.

I don't wish you to be unhappy and miserable all of your life. That's not who I am. I don't think you're wrong to just simply not have feelings for her anymore.

It's life and heartbreak unfortunately happens.

I do, however, believe that you're an immature little boy who needs to grow up and learn to respect girls first and foremost. Until then I don't think that you'll truly be happy or understand what happiness it, even if you are "getting it in" 24/7.

You may be pleased with yourself now and already onto the next girl, and for her sake, I pray that you don't hurt her the way that you hurt my sister all because she respected herself.

One more thing, notice how I titled this "To The Boy Who Hurt My Sisters Heart"? Yeah, I'm sure you expected to see the word broke instead.

You didn't break her. You don't deserve the "title" of breaking my sisters heart on your list of ex-girlfriends. While I wish that she would've been the one to end it with you first, that wasn't the case. You hurt her heart and it's stinging with every thought of you.

When she sees you for the first time she may struggle to keep her composure, but that's also potentially because she never got a proper breakup. What she got was something so low as she apparently didn't deserve to have it said to her face.

But again she's not broken. She is strong and this hurt will only last for a minute before she sees what she deserves all along.

H,

I love you and I'm so incredibly proud of the woman that you are. You are a beautiful young lady who deserves the world and I pray that the next man that you welcome into your life sees that. I'm so proud of you for respecting yourself and not allowing a boy, a sad pitiful boy, take that away from you. I'm so lucky to have you as my baby sister. I'm thankful that God placed us in the same family. I love you.

Love, K.