To Procrastinators From A Former Procrastinator: Get Your Act Together Before It's Too Late

To Procrastinators From A Former Procrastinator: Get Your Act Together Before It's Too Late

Procrastinating is an unavoidable habit for many people, but there comes a time when you have to change before regretting it.

I am going to start off by saying that I have always been a procrastinator. I would put off projects until the night before they were due, not do readings for class on schedule and not do my weekend homework until Sunday night. Honestly, I would still be doing all of these things if not for one reason: my junior year of high school. Junior year is quite honestly kicking my butt. Going into the year, I remember questioning how much different it could possibly be from prior school years.

The answer: a lot.

The workload has increased by tenfold along with stress about college. With all of this, I came to the realization that my approach to school through procrastinating simply was not going to work anymore. I realized that I could only put off something for so long before it would pile up, and I would no longer have time to sleep. This brought me to the really hard decision that I had to stop procrastinating.

Saying something is a lot easier than doing it. I don't think anyone intentionally procrastinates an assignment. I know I don't, but if you don't make a conscious effort to complete something, you won't, which leads to procrastination. In order to try and break this habit, I have done a few things that I would suggest my fellow procrastinators to try.

1. Do weekend homework early.

First off, no matter how tired you may be, always try and start your weekend homework before Sunday night. I know that the week can be tough, but by starting your work on Friday, you will be able to go to sleep at a reasonable hour on Sunday and wake up Monday morning not feeling as drained.

2. Start projects immediately.

Secondly, always – and I mean always – start working on a project the evening it is assigned. I know that this is not always possible, but by starting a project early, you are able to space it out and ensure that you are not doing it the day it is due, which would then result in a messy and rushed assignment.

3. Plan out a schedule.

Thirdly and most importantly, plan out your time. If you know that you only have four hours of time to do your work on a given evening, create a schedule of when to do each assignment so you do not get sidetracked on your phone. This is super helpful for me because it helps me remember exactly what I should be doing at that given minute and ensures that I am able to get to back at a good time.

So to all the procrastinators out there, while changing your habits may take a lot of work in the short term, in the long run, you will be less rushed and more put together than if you save everything for the last minute.

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I Suffer From Vulnerability Hangovers And I'm Slowly Learning To Go With It, You Should Too

Without vulnerability, there wouldn't be anything real.

Maybe I said too much.

They probably think I'm crazy.

I should have just kept my mouth shut.

If you ever have thoughts like these, you probably suffer from vulnerability hangovers just like I do.

Brene Brown defines "vulnerability hangovers" as the feeling you get when you second guess a moment of self-disclosure. You feel great for awhile until you replay the moment over in your head and wish you hadn't said certain things. You feel exposed and you wish you could take it all back, but it's never that simple.

Once it's out there, there's no going back and that's a scary thought. Not knowing whether they'll accept you when you are completely and honestly YOU.

Vulnerability is messy and awkward.

I don't think I've ever met anyone who has actually enjoyed the process that is required of being vulnerable. They may enjoy the relationships that have come out of it but bringing themselves to a point where their darkest secrets and their greatest fears are out in the open is not easy. But no matter who you are, it's not easy.

Those that say it is, have either had the practice or are lying to themselves. Because the fear of being vulnerable stems from our fear of being seen, heard and known for who we truly are, it reveals our worst insecurities...even the ones we didn't know we had.

What makes people feel vulnerable?

People feel vulnerable when they share stories or try to be themselves. They feel it when they are in trouble and they need help. Sometimes, vulnerability takes the form of a girl who wants to try a different look hoping people don't think she's trying too hard. Or, it's when a fifty-something-year-old man gets laid off and has no idea how he's going to provide for his family.

It also happens when you make a choice to put yourself out there knowing there's a possibility that you could be laughed at. It's choosing to open your mouth even when you might be rejected. It's awkward and it's painful.

While it's not at all easy, it is necessary. Without vulnerability, there would be no connection. An authentic relationship would not exist. We'd live in a world full of fake and lonely people.

That's not a world anyone wants to live in. I should know because I let myself live in that world for too long and that's just too It's depressing! We need to start learning to embrace it and go with being uncomfortable.

I'd rather live through the messy and awkward stages if that meant I'd never have to feel alone again. I still suffer from vulnerability hangovers and I'm hoping it's something that I'll overcome with practice. And if not, at least I'm striving for something real.

I think it's time we ask ourselves what makes us vulnerable? Whatever that is, let's do it!

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Don't Give Up On Sororities

Find your family.

Growing up, I always wanted to be in a sorority.

You see them portrayed in movies and on television as the coolest girls- the ones that everyone wants to be and be around. It wasn’t the popularity factor that interested me as much though, it was the closeness that these girls always exhibited. They were “sisters” and they were family. As an only child, I loved the idea of having sisters and being part of something special that was bigger than just me.

When I got to my first college, I couldn’t wait for rush to start.

I had been doing my research, and knew which sororities I could see myself being part of; I couldn’t wait to finally meet the girls that could fulfill my childhood aspiration with.

I learned quickly that it wasn’t as easy as just introducing yourself to the girls. Meeting them seemed so artificial, as if they were reading off scripts. It was evident from the beginning that they already had an idea in their head of who was joining and who was not. I was not part of this idea. This would have crushed my dreams of being in a sorority for good if I had not transferred.

At my new school I knew that the people were different- more friendly and genuine. My first semester I held out on the whole sorority thing, skeptical of the process for obvious reasons and wanting to time to adjust to my new school. I had accepted the title of a GDI, "god damn independent", and wore it with pride. As much as I was okay with this, I still knew that something was missing.

Fall of 2017, first semester of sophomore year, is when my mindset changed again. I was going through a lot of personal problems: family, love, and what felt like any other bad thing that could possibly happen to me. The allure of a group of sisters was slowly pulling me back in. I was desperate for at least some sort of stability, and I wanted a group of girl friends that I could depend on.

Soon after my curiosity was piqued one of my friends started to introduce me to some of her sorority sisters. The more sisters I met, the more I realized that I was having real conversations and making real connections. I couldn’t help but think that this was what I always envisioned a sorority being like- real.

I had never received so much support and unwavering kindness from people whom I barely even knew as soon as I joined.

For the first time in a while I felt secure, confident, and surrounded by people that truly cared about me. This feeling has only multiplied as time has gone on, and I'm not sure what I would do without my sisters. In such a short amount of time I have made friends that I can already see myself being friends with forever, and I think that's pretty amazing. No matter what preconceptions, bad experiences, or doubts that you have- give sorority life one more shot.

Behind all of the crafting and glitter, there is a second family waiting to give you all of the love that they have.

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