Dear Possible Future Husband,

As I sit here, I find myself thinking of you, again. I find myself thinking about who we are, and who we'll be. I don't know if you think about us too, but I can only hope that you put as much thought into who you'll marry as I do. Marriage is a huge commitment. It's the second biggest commitment you can make for your life here on Earth. If by chance you're already in my life, then just know that I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with you. However, before we get to that point there are some things you need to know about me:

1. I'm not housewife material.

I dream of a day that I put my career on hold to stay at home and take care of our children, but until that day comes, I'm not housewife material. My career is important to me. At the end of the day, I'm not going to have the house spotless for you every time. There will be days that I won't feel like cooking supper and having it ready when you get home. It doesn't mean that I don't appreciate you, or that I'm lazy. I just means that I'm, quite simply, tired.

2. I'm pretty sassy.

And that'll probably never change. As you already know, I'm a sassy girl. I have a tender heart, but I don't take crap from anyone. I have a smart mouth on me and I just hope that you understand my sense of humor.

3. I'm a great cook.

I probably should've mentioned this one first so that I could really get you on the hook. If I've never cooked it before, then you can still expect it to be good the first time. I got it from my mama.

4. I'm a big daddy's girl.

You probably already know this. He will always be an important part of my life. I will always have a special place for him in my heart. No, you will not be able to fill it. If you hurt me, then you might want to go ahead and start making funeral arrangements for yourself. He's a great man, but he's super protective of me. I love both of you, so don't ever ask me to choose.

5. I can be pretty emotional at times.

Everything can be fine and we can be laughing, then all of a sudden a commercial with a cute kitten comes on and I will burst into tears. For no reason at all other than cuteness overload. Then, I'll cry at the thought of those that hate cats and would hurt them. Which brings me to my next point...

6. I am a crazy cat lover.

If you just absolutely want to surprise me with something, but you can't think of anything, then bring me a cat. It doesn't matter what age, how fluffy it is, or its personality, I will cuddle the crap out of it and love you forever. My kitty cat is my child. So when you marry me, you will become a step father. That wasn't a request.

7. I have a sense of humor.

Okay, I'm really not trying to brag on myself. I hope that you understand my sense of humor. If you do, then we will spend hours laughing with, or at each other until tears are rolling down our faces and we've lost 59 pounds off our stomachs.

8. I'm really not hard to make happy.

It doesn't take much to make me happy. Just hand me a coloring book, and I'll be happy for hours. Also, remember to always put the toilet seat down and keep your shoes off the furniture and I'll be one happy camper.

9. God is my priority.

Let's go ahead and get that one locked down. God is, and will always be, my numero uno priority.

10. I can be very aggravating.

Whether I'm being stubborn, or just a plain ol' pain in the butt, you can expect tons of aggravation from me. I'll pick at you, argue with you, laugh at you, poke your cheeks, and always attempt to tickle you. Just ignore it. I love you in advance.

11. I will love you like no other.

Unlike a lot of women these days, I believe in fighting for love. When things get rough, I'm not going to spend hours or days thinking about why on earth I married you in the first place. I'll instead spend that time thinking about what we can do to fix it. I will always want to try whatever it takes to keep both of us happy. Because of that, I will better appreciate you and everything you do for me.