To My Person-The Thank Yous That Are Easily Forgotten

To My Person-The Thank Yous That Are Easily Forgotten

It's simple to thank you for the big things, but some little things are forgotten and underappreciated!

While I could write thousands of sappy words describing what you mean to me, I figured you get that enough. This isn't the classic love letter and I am not going to spend this article writing about how amazing you are (as much as I easily could), but instead, I am going to go in a different direction. I could thank you for all that you do for me, for always supporting me, picking me up when I'm down, and so much more, but that's what all these types of articles are about. While we both know our relationship is one of a kind, I'm always seeing the same types of articles. So instead, I'd like to thank you for the things no one remembers to thank their boyfriend for.

Thank you for always acting like a child with me even though this is most likely because we both have no idea how to adult correctly (mostly me).

Thank you for taking a million pictures with me and then hating all of them with me because neither one of us are photogenic.

Thank you for telling me how it is and not sugar coating things, especially when I need it most.

Thank you for pretending to be into my TV shows (even though most times you actually are and won't admit it).

Thank you for not caring that I take up the whole bed and that this will never change.

Thank you for being proud of me when I eat more than you do.

Thank you for driving basically everywhere because I'm usually too lazy or just don't want to.

Thank you for ordering extra appetizers and blue cheese because you know I'll eat it even when I say I won't.

Thank you for shopping with me and somehow dealing with it.

Thank you for playing with my hair and then telling me how knotty it is and that I need to shower; I appreciate the honesty and usually need it.

Thank you for always letting me choose where we eat even when I say I don't want to.

Thank you for letting me steal all of your clothes and knowing you're not getting them back even when I promise to return them.

Thank you for always being willing to get fries and milkshakes with me even though we're both constantly saying we need to go to the gym more (and by that I mean you go every day and I go once a month).

Thank you for dealing with my constant shedding and dealing with finding strays of my hair on everything you own.

Thank you for giving me attitude back when I give you attitude.

Thank you for being my biggest fan, and I am yours.

Lastly, thank you for being you and for making me who I truly am. There are infinite things I could thank you for, but all of these little things are very underappreciated.


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6 Important Must Knows For Dating Sassy And Sarcastic Girls

Brace yourselves boys, she's a tough one.

Dating a girl with a big personality can be tricky. They are some of the most amazing girls but to keep them, one needs to understand them. Here are six important things you must be aware of before you give your heart to a sassy and sarcastic girl.

1. Stubborn

She is going to be the most stubborn creature you will ever meet. I say "creature" because she might actually scare you with how much she refuses to back down until you have full proof she is wrong. And if you can’t prove her wrong, just suck up your pride and let her be right or she’ll never quit. But just remember that she’s simply passionate about whatever it is and you should be proud of her for that.

2. Bluntness

She is going to be blunt. So be prepared to hear the truth. She isn’t going to care how mad you get, if you’re being rude, she won’t be afraid to put you in your place. If your choice of clothing isn’t matching, she’ll tell you. Whatever it is, she isn’t going to keep the truth from you. Sometimes it’s subtle, sometimes she’s just a little too straightforward.

3. Sensitivity

Be careful sometimes with your choice of words. Though she is blunt, she is also sensitive. Her sarcastic personality is sometimes just a defense mechanism because she fears opening up. She worries a lot and continues to ponder the things you say. Remind her she is loved.

4. Friends

She is going to have a lot more guy friends than she will have girl friends. Why? Because guys tend to find more humor in her sarcasm and don’t take it so personal, whereas other girls take it as she’s being serious and just rude. However, don’t be jealous because trust me, you’re 100 percent hers and those guy friends are just that — friends.

5. Insults

She’s not going to flirt with you by giggling and blushing and calling you cute. She’s going to call you an idiot and smack you across the shoulder or back because to her, that’s easier than being all giddy and speechless over how much she likes you. And even when she’s calling you names, which really is in all fun and games, she doesn’t mean it seriously, she’s actually just saying “I love you” in her own special language.

6. Shorty

If she’s short in addition to being sassy and sarcastic, you’re in for a big treat with her. She is not only going to be full of fast wit, but she is going to have so much spunk in her you won’t know what to do. She will be so feisty that she won’t be afraid of anything or anyone and you yourself won’t even know how to handle her. That’s what makes her special.

It takes a certain type of person to be able to give their heart to someone who can so easily break it with their strong headed personality. But a sarcastic and sassy girl is going to be the one girl who is going to love you with all that she has. Treat her right, and she’ll treat you right.

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To The Friend I Rarely See Anymore

I wish you nothing but the best.


When we graduated high school, we thought it was the end for us. The distance would ruin us and we wouldn't be able to call ourselves friends. Thankfully, you were my rock for the first year of school. You were the one I turned to when the adjustment was hard or when I needed someone to talk to and just listen. We never lost our connection for a whole year. We proved that nothing could pull us apart no matter how far the distance, no matter the different schedules. We were still best friends.

Another summer came and we only got stronger. We went on countless beach trips, late night hangouts, and Starbucks runs. I didn't even think it was possible to be this much closer to you than we already were. If we weren't together, we would Snapchat or text to never stop the conversation.

Now summer ended, we didn't think twice about losing our connection this time. We had a bond stronger than anyone could fathom. We once again went our separate ways and kept our texting and Snapchat habits.

But something changed.

It must've been the comfort level of sophomore year. It must've been all the new friends we got. It must have been the boys who entered our lives. We don't speak anymore. I haven't seen you since winter break. I haven't texted you since New Year's Eve. Our connection, one that was once thought to be indestructible, came crumbling down with sophomore year. I am not going to lie, sophomore year was the best of my life, but I knew you were missing the whole time. It wasn't the same without you.

I'm not upset you chose to focus your time and life on your new boyfriend. I am happy for you. I am not upset you spend more time with your school friends. I am happy for you. I am not upset you don't text me anymore and killed our streak. I know you're living a happy life. And I am too.

We may have gone our separate ways like we never imagined, but I am happy you are finally happy. Don't forget for one second that I will always be here for you. I will still always answer your text. I will still always be your shoulder to cry on even when no one else is there for you. I wish you nothing but the best, and I hope you're doing ok.

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