To My Person-The Thank Yous That Are Easily Forgotten

To My Person-The Thank Yous That Are Easily Forgotten

It's simple to thank you for the big things, but some little things are forgotten and underappreciated!
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While I could write thousands of sappy words describing what you mean to me, I figured you get that enough. This isn't the classic love letter and I am not going to spend this article writing about how amazing you are (as much as I easily could), but instead, I am going to go in a different direction. I could thank you for all that you do for me, for always supporting me, picking me up when I'm down, and so much more, but that's what all these types of articles are about. While we both know our relationship is one of a kind, I'm always seeing the same types of articles. So instead, I'd like to thank you for the things no one remembers to thank their boyfriend for.

Thank you for always acting like a child with me even though this is most likely because we both have no idea how to adult correctly (mostly me).

Thank you for taking a million pictures with me and then hating all of them with me because neither one of us are photogenic.

Thank you for telling me how it is and not sugar coating things, especially when I need it most.

Thank you for pretending to be into my TV shows (even though most times you actually are and won't admit it).

Thank you for not caring that I take up the whole bed and that this will never change.

Thank you for being proud of me when I eat more than you do.

Thank you for driving basically everywhere because I'm usually too lazy or just don't want to.

Thank you for ordering extra appetizers and blue cheese because you know I'll eat it even when I say I won't.

Thank you for shopping with me and somehow dealing with it.

Thank you for playing with my hair and then telling me how knotty it is and that I need to shower; I appreciate the honesty and usually need it.

Thank you for always letting me choose where we eat even when I say I don't want to.

Thank you for letting me steal all of your clothes and knowing you're not getting them back even when I promise to return them.

Thank you for always being willing to get fries and milkshakes with me even though we're both constantly saying we need to go to the gym more (and by that I mean you go every day and I go once a month).

Thank you for dealing with my constant shedding and dealing with finding strays of my hair on everything you own.

Thank you for giving me attitude back when I give you attitude.

Thank you for being my biggest fan, and I am yours.

Lastly, thank you for being you and for making me who I truly am. There are infinite things I could thank you for, but all of these little things are very underappreciated.

THANK YOU!

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An Open Letter To My Boyfriend's Mom

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Your son and I have been dating a while now and I just wanted to thank you for everything.

Wow, where do I start? Ever since the day your son brought me into your home you have shown me nothing but kindness. I have not one negative thought about you and I am truly thankful for that. I first and foremost want to thank you for welcoming me with open arms. There are horror stories of mothers resenting their son's girlfriends and I am blessed there is no resentment or harsh feelings.

Thank you for treating me like one of your children, with so much love but knowing exactly when to tease me.

Thank you for sticking up for me when your son teases me, even though I know it’s all in good fun it's always comforting knowing you have someone by your side.

Thank you for raising a man who respects women and knows how to take responsibility of mistakes and not a boy who is immature and doesn’t take responsibility.

Thank you for always including me in family affairs, I may not be blood family but you do everything you can to make sure I feel like I am.

Thank you for letting me make memories with your family.

There is nothing I value more in this world then memories with friends and family and I am thankful you want and are willing to include me in yours. I have so much to thank you for my thoughts keep running together.

The most important thing I have to thank you for is for trusting me with your son. I know how precious and valuable he is and I won't break his heart. I will do everything I can to make him happy. This means more than you could ever imagine and I promise I will never break your trust.

The second most important thing I must thank you for is for accepting me for who I am. Never have you ever wished I looked like another girl or acted like another girl. You simply love and care for me and that’s all I could ever ask. Every person in this world is a unique different person and understanding that means a lot.

The third most important thing I must thank you is teaching me how to one day in the future treat a potential girlfriend that I may interact with as a mother. I am not a mother, but I one day plan to be. If I ever have a son it is because of how you treated me that I am able to be a humble loving mother to this new face that could one day walk into my door. How you have treated me has taught me how I should one day be in the future and I thank you for that.

This may seem all over the place but that’s how my brain gets when I try and thank you for everything you have done for me. It’s all so much and even the little things are so important so I promise my scattered thoughts are all with good intentions and not meant to bombard you. I just want to get the idea across to you that you are important and special to me and everything you do does not go unnoticed.

Sincerely,

Your Son’s Girlfriend

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15 Ways To Support Your Military Significant Other

The military is not like any other job.

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15 ways to support your significant other in the military. Being a MILSO is terrifying, lonely, and frustrating. Here are some tips to get by. YOU GOT THIS!

1. Understand that they will be busy

The military is not a 9-5 job with a lunch break. It could be drill or deployment, remember that they are going to be busy. He/she might not be able to call every night, text you, or answer your texts in a timely manner. They are busy, you should stay busy too.

2. The military is not a job, it is a lifestyle 

Unfortunately, you cannot pick and chose when you are a military spouse, girlfriend, or boyfriend. You are expected to act like a MILSO 24/7. You should support them 24/7 and be a listening ear when needed. Your SO does not have a normal job.

3. Become independent

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You will be away from your military significant other for days, weeks, months, or even a year+. This is overwhelming and exhausting. But think of it as an opportunity for you to gain independence, work on your own dreams, and become the person you want to be!

4. Trust, trust, and more trust

Do not take this one lightly. Being a significant other, in any relationship, means trust. You have to believe that they mean what they say. You have to trust them when they cannot answer your texts or calls. Believe that they are doing is important and you can wait.

5. Prepare for deployment

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Unfortunately, this is a very real side of being a MILSO. You never know where and when they are going to leave or for how long. Welcome to the roller coaster (;

6. Do not date them for the benefits 

The job is done because they love their country and want you to be safe, not for the military pay or benefits. It is not glamorous, or worth it just for the health insurance! Do it because you love them.

7. Become a support system

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Support them every day, through words, actions, and reassurance. This job is not easy. Do not be pushy with details. Let your significant other come to you when they are ready.

8. Lean on other MILSOs

Because nobody says you have to do it alone.

9. They are missing you too

Just because they are busy does not mean they are not missing you. Not only do they not have you, but they also do not have their house, bed, family, or even their own country at times!

10. If you have children, be prepared to become both parents 

I, personally, do not have children. However, growing up in a military family, I had my mother play my father role. It is scary but it is possible. Do not expect to be perfect.

11. Be flexible 

When I first started this journey, I thought, "It is the military, when they said he will be home at 6:00 pm, he will be home EXACTLY 6:00 pm!" I could not have been more wrong. FLEXIBILITY IS KEY!

12. The military isn't closed for the holidays

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They will not be home for every holiday, every birthday, or every plan. Plans are made to be changed. Nobody can control the military or its timing. Be prepared to have Christmas in January.

13. Be proud of them 

What they are doing is not easy. It is scary, stressful, exhausting, and time-consuming. They are doing it because they care. Show how proud you are of them.

14. Hug them...all the time

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Appreciate the time you have together. It means the world to both of you.

15. Send packages, letters, texts, ANYTHING

They are looking forward to what you have to say. After their long day, they want to see your texts and packages. Make their job a little more tolerable.

Good Luck, fellow MILSOs! YOU GOT THIS

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