To My Freshman Year Roommate: Thank you for everything

An Open Letter To My Roommate At The End Of Freshman Year

Freshman year is almost over, and it could not have been any better thanks to you.


Like most social media apps, Snapchat has introduced a memory component, showing you what you had saved in years prior.

Just the other day, late in the night, I had seen the little red button pop up and clicked on it to see a story the year before.

It was a computer screen that had announced to my friends on Snapchat that I had officially picked a roommate. I panned over to her in the video, and we both had big smiles on our faces. Neither of us knew what this next year would hold. Now that it's over, I want to say thank you for everything you have done for me in this past year. This is an open thank you letter to the best friend and roommate in the world.

Thank you so much for staying up with me late at night and talking about anything or everything with me.

It was the best way to unwind after long days of classes and work. We could get into deep, emotional conversations or lay and talk about who the greatest rapper of all time is. At times, I would make a makeshift bed on the ground so I had a better view of That 70's Show while we talked. It's hard to fall asleep without our conversation. This is also an open apology for each night that you would sit up and look over to me while you were talking just to realize I had been asleep this whole time. I wish I could go back and sit up each of those nights and keep the conversation going.

Thank you for supporting me in whatever I do.

Whether that is standing and recording me cutting my own hair during a mental breakdown, or coming into the bathroom and having a quick crying session while all of our friends were over. Thank you for backing me up in arguments, whether they were serious, or even if they were over something as stupid as how long can hamster wheels be used underwater. Your support has made me grow into a better person in regard to my self-confidence, which I have struggled with for years. You don't know how much that means to me.

Thank you for always being wild and staying on my level.

We always had to be doing something, and our energy always matched. You want to jump on the beds? So do I. You want to cuddle up and watch the same movie for the tenth time? I'm down. Feel like laying in a hammock outside as there's a huge snowstorm? Let's do it. You kept me wild and sane at the same time. You helped me step out of my box and try new things. You helped me grow as a person.

Thank you for everything.

For all of the songs that became our jam that we had to sing together at the top of our lungs, no matter where we were. For all of the jokes we constantly came up with based off of the crazy moments we shared. For all of the hugs, long car rides, and split Domino's orders. You will have no idea how much all of these moments mean to me. I truly cherished every moment we lived together.

I didn't think this year would go as well as it did. I didn't know that by asking you to be my roommate — a girl that I knew but wasn't too close with, would land me with a best friend for life.

Not every person in your life stays forever, but I know that deep down in my heart, there will be absolutely nothing that will ever come between us. You're the Joey to my Chandler, in every way possible.

I love you.

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Let's be real: you and your roommate have said these things at least one to each other.

1. "Can you turn the light off?"

2. "We probably shouldn't go out for dinner again...right?"

*Complains about not having money* *Spends $8 on Chipotle three times a week*

3. "I always pick where we go"

This is a fight you have with your roommate almost every day when you're roommate is as indecisive as mine.

4. "Do you have my keys?"

5. "Can you pick me up?"

6. "Is it hot in here?"

7. "Does this outfit look stupid?"

The answer is usually yes. No offense.

8. "Can you throw this out for me?"

9. "Can we get ice cream?"

10. "I need coffee."

This text is usually sent when you know your roomie is out running errands... errands you know are near a Starbucks.

11. "Can you tell me what happened?"

12. "Are you asleep?"

There have been times where I couldn't tell if you were asleep or dead... and I had to say this out loud to check if you were alive.

13. "Check your DM's."

*Cracks up in the middle of nowhere* *Catches a weird stare from your roomie across the room*

14. "Can you plug this in for me?"

15. "Can you pick a movie?"

Another instance where "I always pick" happens.

16. "Look at this girl's Instagram."

*Chucks phone across the room at roommate*

17. "Can you call me?"

18. "Can we meet up?"

19. "Can you help me find my phone?"

*Tries to leave the house to do something* *Loses phone* Every. Time.

20. "What should we do tonight?"

*Tries to get ready to do something fun* *Ends up staying in for another girls' night*

21. "Why isn't everyone as great as us?"


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To My Long-Distance Best Friend, We Might Be 7,811 Miles Apart, But Our Friendship Only Gets Stronger

It breaks my heart that I cannot be around for your birthdays or to celebrate your achievements. But I'm so proud of every milestone you achieve. I am so proud of all your accomplishments and the person you are becoming.


To my best friend,

It has been 270 days since I last met you and 206 more days until I meet you again. People say that time flies by quickly, but these have been the most difficult days that seemed to drag on forever. Five years ago when you were sitting next to me on the first day of our sociology class, I had no idea we would end up being best friends. From sharing my mother's parathas during lunch breaks to the countless sleepovers, I will never forget all the memories we created throughout high school.

I vividly remember the day I told you I would be studying abroad. You were so happy and proud of me for pursuing my dreams but also upset that we wouldn't be seeing each other every now and then. I was worried if our friendship would even last. But we have spent almost two years away from each other and our friendship only seems to get stronger.

I'm so grateful to technology for allowing us to be in touch all the time. My day doesn't feel complete if I do not receive a text from you. I know we do not video call often because of how busy our schedules are (another reason being time zones suck and I cannot do the math), but always know that I am there for you. It breaks my heart that I cannot be around for your birthdays or to celebrate your achievements. But I'm so proud of every milestone you achieve. I am so proud of all your accomplishments and the person you are becoming.

We have both had some terrible friendship experiences in our past before we met each other that have completely broken our faith in friendships. But know that you can always count on me and that I will never leave your side. Know that I will always set an alarm early in the morning just to video call you. Know that I will always be there for you (even if I'm not physically present around you). Know that you will always be the first person I share everything with.

I cannot thank you enough for everything you have done for me. Thank you for encouraging me to make new friends at college. Thank you for always being there during my failures and reminding me that it's not the end of the world and that more opportunities will come my way. Thank you for being there during my successes and being my number one cheerleader. Thank you for always reminding me to love myself. You not only have a special place in my heart but also have a special place in my family. My mother and sister are not only glad that I have a best friend like you but also adore you so much. It is impossible to imagine a life without you.

I cannot wait for more butter chicken sleepover dates in December!

Lots of love,

Your best friend.

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