To My Ex Best Friends, Thank You.

To My Ex Best Friends, Thank You.

For unknowingly helping me through the loss of you.
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I know you might think this is sarcastic, but I'm serious thank you.

Thank you for the memories I get to tell my new friends. For the endless laughs, and the nights I was too drunk to really recollect what actually happened.

For something to talk about, for something to think about- thank you.

Thank you for the pictures, because a picture says one thousand words. For the memories engraved in them, for the smiles. For the happiness that went along with them, and for something to look back to- to remember all the monumental things that happened. For the hugs, the kisses, the laughter.

For something to remember, a memory at the palm of my hand- thank you.

Thank you for hidden meaning in every song. For that warm cozy feeling that fills my heart everytime a verse plays over the speaker. For the dance moves that went with it, and the chorus I hear in my head.

For the meanings, that will never slip my mind and the words that are decoded in my brain forever.

Thank you for the growth. Not just during our friendship but after, for teaching me that it's not always my fault, that sometimes it takes forgiving too.

For someone to grow with, and for being the cheerleaders who helped me grow along the way.

Thank you for the shoulders to cry on. For helping me through my first heartbreak, for letting me know its ok. For never letting me settle for less, for always pushing me beyond my boundaries.

For the tissues, the advice that I will utter out of my mouth to my new friends.

Thank you for the love that you placed in my heart. For showing me that sometimes girlfriends are your real soulmates. For the love, you always covered me with, for showing me how a real friend loves.

For the hugs for no reason, for telling me you love me when getting out of the car. (the drunk ones were always my favorite).

Thank you for the new beginnings you granted me. For letting me walk when I asked to walk, for never pushing me away. For always wanting the best, and checking up on me when I was away.

For the best wishes, and the good lucks. Unknowingly you helped me through the loss of you.






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To The Dad Who Didn't Want Me, It's Mutual Now

Thank you for leaving me because I am happy.
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Thank you, for leaving me.

Thank you, for leaving me when I was little.

Thank you, for not putting me through the pain of watching you leave.

Thank you, for leaving me with the best mother a daughter could ask for.

I no longer resent you. I no longer feel anger towards you. I wondered for so long who I was. I thought that because I didn't know half of my blood that I was somehow missing something. I thought that who you were defined me. I was wrong. I am my own person. I am strong and capable and you have nothing to do with that. So thank you for leaving me.

In my most vulnerable of times, I struggled with the fact that you didn't want me. You could have watched me grow into the person that I have become, but you didn't. You had a choice to be in my life. I thought that the fact that my own father didn't want me spoke to my own worth. I was wrong. I am so worthy. I am deserving, and you have nothing to do with that. So thank you for leaving me.

You have missed so much. From my first dance to my first day of college, and you'll continue to miss everything. You won't see me graduate, you won't walk me down the aisle, and you won't get to see me follow my dreams. You'll never get that back, but I don't care anymore. What I have been through, and the struggles that I have faced have brought me to where I am today, and I can't complain. I go to a beautiful school, I have the best of friends, I have an amazing family, and that's all I really need.

Whoever you are, I hope you read this. I hope you understand that you have missed out on one of the best opportunities in your life. I could've been your daughter. I could have been your little girl. Now I am neither, nor will I ever be.

So thank you for leaving me because I am happy. I understand my self-worth, and I understand that you don't define me. You have made me stronger. You have helped make me who I am without even knowing it.

So, thank you for leaving me.

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An Open Letter To The Friend Who Continues To Save My Life

No one knows me like you do.

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From the day we became friends, we have always had nothing but support for one another. Although we have only really been friends for about seven years now, I feel as if you have always been a part of my life. You know me just as well as you know yourself, and I understand you in the same way I understand my own thoughts and feelings.

You have never made me feel pressured, insecure, or unappreciated. The mutual respect we have for one another is unmatched. We can talk to each other about anything; from some of the most trivial topics to entire life philosophies. We have grown and matured together, and I couldn't be more proud of the person you are today.

We don't always agree on everything, and I always appreciate your fresh point of view, but I have never felt more in sync with another person than I do with you. We share the same birth month, the same age, the same home town, the same anxieties, and many of the same attitudes and values.

I feel as if you know exactly when I want to be alone and when I need company. Since we are both introverted, we understand that the other person needs time to recharge. And when I'm sitting alone with nothing to do, I always get a text from you asking to hang out.

In some of my loneliest, most vulnerable moments, you have been there. When I question how many true friends I really have, you are always sure to make your love for me known.

Through high school, and now college, we have experienced so many life-changing events together. Some that have taught us extremely valuable lessons, and others that have shown us incredible pain and how to grow from our lowest moments.

I want to thank you for showing me what life-long friendship looks like. Thank you for always understanding me and never putting too much pressure on me. I see an incredible future for both of us no matter where each of our lives takes us.

We will always share a unique connection that cannot be separated by any distance. But, for now, I'm glad you're only one text or phone call away.

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