Over the years, I have had to deal with these gatherings more times than I can count. It is inevitable that you see everyone once again during the Holiday Season to exchange Hello's and catch up on each other's lives.

As a recent college student, I can already be prepared with my answers to common questions like, "What are you studying?" or "Are you involved in Greek Life?" and "What made you choose that school over others?" Answering these most likely to be asked questions will already prepare you for these inevitable awkward conversations at Christmas.

These parties are not so bad if you are attending with your family. As for me, I like to stick by my siblings for support. Worst comes to worst you can profit off some free food and see a beautiful home filled to the brim with decorations. Instead of avoiding small talk, altogether try to respond by putting the emphasis on the other person.

People love talking about themselves. Asking about the other person, will put less pressure on yourself, if for example you have an undeclared major and have no idea what the rest of your life holds (aka me). On the other hand, don't be so uncomfortable as to not have small talk with someone at all. It could get fairly awkward, especially if you haven't seen some of your family friends in years.

A tip is to talk about local news that's happening in your town or what's going on with their family pet. Try to avoid federal government politic talk and the weather. These Christmas parties are not something that you should dread going to. Instead, see it as practice for communicating with other people in a polite manner. You'll get through it!