We hear it all the time. A woman walks by a man, and he can't stop himself from making some kind of inappropriate remark. Then, he'll wonder why every woman he talks to always responds with, "I have boyfriend," even if she doesn't
Men, women are constantly being treated like they're some kind of sexual toy, and nothing more. We do not consider it flattering when you whistle at us when we drop something. We do not consider it flattering when you holler, "Hey baby!" out of your car window when you're passing by. We do not consider it flattering when you walk up to us, and the first thing out of your mouth is a sexual remark about our body. It's bad when one of a woman's absolute least favorite things to do is walk by a group of men because she just knows they're going to make some kind of inappropriate remark.
Men these days do not respect women. Period. Now, before you go and get all defensive on me, yes there are some that still treat women with the respect that they deserve. Thank you to those that do, from all of us women. But the sad truth is that most don't care about women or their true purpose. You see, I'm a strong believer that woman was created for man to help him because he couldn't do it on his own. Society gave women the role of keeping their mouths shut, cooking and worshiping their husbands, and making babies. Sad.
Women were made to be more, much more. We were meant to be someone of worth. I do not believe that it is always a woman's fault when a man lusts after her, despite what some believe. I believe men need to learn how to control themselves from making inappropriate remarks towards women.
So let me help you. Men, when you see an attractive woman drop something, run and try to help her pick it up. Do not whistle at her behind. When you see an attractive woman as you are passing her by in your vehicle, simply smile at her. Do not holler "Hey baby!" She is not your baby, and you are a creep. When you see an attractive woman, and you approach her, do not start off by saying, "Aye girl! You got a nice (insert choice word here)." Instead, introduce yourself first and then compliment her beauty, not her assets.
Understand that women are not here to satisfy your sex craving. We are here to help you because just admit it, you need help. Respect women. Realize what a woman had to go through to bring you here to this earth. Are you going to disrespect the gender that baked you, and gave you life after nine long, uncomfortable, sleepless nights? Are you going to disrespect the gender that cared for you when you were pitiful and sick as a child? Are you going to disrespect the one that took off work, if she worked, to go check you out of school because you were sick? Men are naturally stronger than women. Are you really going to use your advantage of strength to rape a woman just so that you can feel some sort of sexual relief? Even though she told you no? What the heck is wrong with you?
Have some respect. After all, if you do ever find a woman that will put up with you and bless you with a beautiful daughter, would you want the kind of man (boy) that you are right now to treat your daughter the same way? Think about it.