Recently being in a rut myself, I knew I had to pull myself out. As easy as it is to stay down and let negative thoughts get the best of you, I chose to make the best out of things. It wasn’t easy, but I learned a few tricks that can change your negative and stagnant stance.
1. Read a book.
Now, I know not everyone likes to read, but if you can stand it, DO IT. It was probably the best decision I made about a week ago when I didn’t have Friday night plans. I pulled out a random love story from under my bed and got wrapped up in it. In a way, it was like escaping my reality and living someone else’s.
2. Write down what you are feeling.
Again, not everyone is a fan of writing. However, going around telling everyone that you are bored in life, that won’t get anything done. But when you take the time to write something out, it takes a lot more energy and without even realizing it, you are pouring your negative emotions into the words on your paper. This way, everyone wins. You don’t let your emotions fester and you don’t transfer negativity to anyone else.
3. Do something spontaneous!
This isn’t always easy depending on finances, classes, and work, but there are things you can do. For example, you can go for a walk, drive through Atlanta or any city at night to see the pretty lights and activity, or even just drive around. Get yourself out of your habits! Nothing is going to change until you do.
4. Plan something.
Get concert tickets to one of your favorite bands, set up a Facebook page event inviting everyone out or in for a girls night, or plan a trip somewhere! This way, you will have something to be excitedly looking forward to!