August. For some, this month is just another unbearably hot month to get through while for others it signifies the start of the dreaded “s” word; school. For some of you lucky ones who have escaped the clutches of high school, this new month signifies even more fear than usual, for it is the start of new beginnings; college.

Many people want to offer their list of advice for incoming freshmen, for there is a multitude of tips that can help ease the transition and make their first year of college a successful one. Today, however, I offer only one piece of advice, which can apply to many people not categorized as college freshman. That advice is to step outside of your comfort zone.

Throughout high school, I typically was the introverted type who was content to have my little group of friends and just sit back and watch the world around me. I was a homebody and was perfectly happy to stay home every night and hang out with my mom on weekends. I realized quickly that this needed to change once I left for college. People would not beg for my friendship so it was up to me to initiate conversations and be friendly even towards people I typically would not associate with. When there was a student activity on campus, I mustered up my strength to put on real pants and leave the comfort of my room so that I could socialize and believe it or not, most of the time I actually had fun. Stepping out of my comfort zone has led me to many great friendships and memories that I otherwise would not have had. Although it was scary at times, it gradually got easier to put myself out there.

Brian Tracy said, “move out of your comfort zone. You can only grow if you are willing to feel awkward and uncomfortable when you try something new.” College is the time period in a person’s life when they are supposed to figure out who they are. Gone are the ever-present influences from parents, life-long friends, and your hometown community. College freshmen are flung into a brand new environment and pretty much get to recreate themselves. Were you the party-girl in high school? Well, now you have the chance to be known for your many amazing attributes, not your old lifestyle. Sure it is scary to try something new, but most of the time it is definitely worth it.

All you incoming freshies, go to the sports games, join a club or two, and get out of your rooms. When you see someone sitting alone, go up to them and talk to them. Chances are they are wanting new friends just as badly as you are and for all you know you could meet your next best friend. Take chances and put yourself out there. It may take some time to find your niche, but once you do, I guarantee you will be forever grateful that you took a risk.