Time Is Moving Fast... How Will You Spend Yours?

Time Is Moving Fast... How Will You Spend Yours?

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I remember when I was a kid it seemed time moved so slow. A school year lasted a lifetime. Everything took so long. I wanted to grow up but I seemed to be stuck in my youth. However now that I'm getting older, time is moving rapidly. I now miss the endless days of being young and not worrying about real issues. Four years of college flashed before my eyes and in the spring I will be graduating. The question, "What are you doing after you graduate?" is no longer just a conversation starter, now it's a like a warning. It can no longer be an afterthought that I'll be concerned with later. But the real question is, "How did I get here so fast?" I was just a freshman moving into my dorm at Poyda yesterday and now I am driving myself to school everyday, with a job, a foot in the present, and a foot in the future. I can't only be concerned with what I am currently doing but I also have to be prepared for what I want to do.

It was easy to shake off the thought of graduation when it was a while away but now it's around the corner. As much as I want to push it off and not think about it, that's not going to stop time from moving forward. No matter what, time is going to move forward. So instead of dreading it and worrying myself into a panic, I started being proactive. It's still slightly scary to think of life beyond Rider, but it's also exciting. I've been waiting for a new chapter in my life to begin and now I can actually see it happening. I'm taking the swift transitions in life and using them to my advantage. I'm not going to be afraid of what's around the corner, instead I'm going to face it head first, as ready as I can be and take control of the time I have.

Now I ask you reader, what will you do with your time? The situation you're in now is only for now. Who knows where you'll be a year from now. Seize each day and don't be afraid to try new things. Before you know it, 2018 will be here. Before you know it you will have graduated from college. Before you know it, you'll have a career, maybe a family, a house of your own. Time goes by so quickly, but instead of dwelling on how fast it's moving and feeling like you're running out of time, you should make the most of the time you have. Don't spend your time wishing that you had something, spend your time trying to get it. A lifetime seems like a long time when you're young but as you get older you realize just how short it is. But don't let that get you down, use that as inspiration to make sure that your time on Earth is spent as productively and wisely as possible. Or better yet use it as a challenge, to see how much you can get done in a limited amount of time. You might just surprise yourself.

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The Truth About Young Marriage

Different doesn't mean wrong.

When I was a kid, I had an exact picture in my mind of what my life was going to look like. I was definitely not the kind of girl who would get married young, before the age of 25, at least.

And let me tell you, I was just as judgmental as that sentence sounds.

I could not wrap my head around people making life-long commitments before they even had an established life. It’s not my fault that I thought this way, because the majority opinion about young marriage in today’s society is not a supportive one. Over the years, it has become the norm to put off marriage until you have an education and an established career. Basically, this means you put off marriage until you learn how to be an adult, instead of using marriage as a foundation to launch into adulthood.

When young couples get married, people will assume that you are having a baby, and they will say that you’re throwing your life away — it’s inevitable.

It’s safe to say that my perspective changed once I signed my marriage certificate at the age of 18. Although marriage is not always easy and getting married at such a young age definitely sets you up for some extra challenges, there is something to be said about entering into marriage and adulthood at the same time.

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Getting married young does not mean giving up your dreams. It means having someone dream your dreams with you. When you get lost along the way, and your dreams and goals seem out of reach, it’s having someone there to point you in the right direction and show you the way back. Despite what people are going to tell you, it definitely doesn’t mean that you are going to miss out on all the experiences life has to offer. It simply means that you get to share all of these great adventures with the person you love most in the world.

And trust me, there is nothing better than that. It doesn’t mean that you are already grown up, it means that you have someone to grow with.

You have someone to stick with you through anything from college classes and changing bodies to negative bank account balances.

You have someone to sit on your used furniture with and talk about what you want to do and who you want to be someday.

Then, when someday comes, you get to look back on all of that and realize what a blessing it is to watch someone grow. Even after just one year of marriage, I look back and I am incredibly proud of my husband. I’m proud of the person he has become, and I’m proud of what we have accomplished together. I can’t wait to see what the rest of our lives have in store for us.

“You can drive at 16, go to war at 18, drink at 21, and retire at 65. So who can say what age you have to be to find your one true love?" — One Tree Hill
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5 Ways To Tackle Credit Overload In College As A Sleep-Deprived Senior

So you think you can take 19 credits. Well, you can!


So you were ambitious and went into credit overload this semester. Cheers to you! You're hopefully right on track to graduate, if not ahead. Regardless of the reason you chose to bog yourself down with more work than others, here are some tips I've come up with along the way for a successful semester.

1. Make a daily to-do list for each class.

Every day I make a list of all of my classes and what is upcoming for each class. That includes assigned reading, homework and upcoming quizzes and tests. This allows me to visually plan what is on my plate for each day. I am also far less likely to forget an assignment if I continuously write it down until I complete it.

2. Prioritize these items!

Rank the items you just listed to your highest priority (due today or tomorrow) to least priority (due a few weeks from now). This allows you to manage your time and get what you need to get done on time.

3. Try to do your homework on the day it is assigned.

I understand that this is obviously easier said than done. But, one of my professors gave my class this advice in my very first semester of college, and I have remembered it and cherished that advice ever since.

If you are assigned homework on Monday in a class that meets Monday, Wednesday and Friday, it is much better to get it out of the way on Monday afternoon rather than wait until Tuesday night (or Wednesday morning, if you're good at procrastinating). This also lessens your workload on weekends.

4. Etch out time every day to spend in the library.

I never used to believe it when people said you do better work in the library because at home you have more freedom and are distracted. Now that I am in my senior year of college, I have finally found that to be true. I wish I realized that sooner. Now I spend at least three hours a day in the campus library three days a week. If you want to spread it out to one hour a day, that's fine, too. Find a schedule that works for you.

5. Keep your eye on the prize.

My university has a web page with a countdown to graduation. I keep it bookmarked on my laptop. When I am feeling unmotivated, I click the link and remind myself of how many days there are until graduation. If your university doesn't have this feature, you can make your own graduation countdown on a variety of countdown websites. Find something tangible to focus on achieving. You can do this!

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