The Thoughts On Life From One College Girl

The Thoughts On Life From One College Girl

What are your honest thoughts?

I'm going to be honest, this is your warning. This article is incredibly vulnerable, sincere, and authentic. So, if you wanted to read something surface-level and fun then click on this listicle. Please don't take that as a condescending statement, I'm the one who wrote that goofy article and it is just there in case you decide to opt out of reading my rambling thoughts.

Honestly, life is difficult, life is messy. Balancing school, work, internship, and a social life seems nearly impossible. Good friends are few and far between. Meaningful relationships take intentionality and time. Trying to invest and excel while also having rest is no easy feat.

Honestly, knowing that my friends and family have been endangered by fire; that I am so far away and can't do anything about it makes me feel restless. Even though I know they are all physically fine, I also am aware that they may not be emotionally fine.

Honestly, leading worship at such a tumultuous time in this world is intimidating. There is this chance to minister to people, but I have no clue even where to begin.

Honestly, change is scary, but staying the same is even scarier. I am so ready for the next chapter in my life. College has been one of the most rewarding seasons of my life, I have learned so much intellectually and relationally, but I look forward to an absence of constant homework assignments.

Honestly, I have this overwhelming sense of gratitude for each and every person who has invested in my life. Everyone who has gone out of their way to love me, even when I have not been the most lovable. Those people who, no matter how long it has been since we've talked, will still reconnect.

Honestly, I had no idea what to write about this week until I realized that there was no particular concern or thought that overpowered the others. My brain is swirling with several all at once.

Honestly, the faults I see in myself and in this world are all nothing to worry about, because God has more power than I can even imagine; More wisdom than we will experience on this earth; More wisdom than we can comprehend. He has a plan far greater than we know, even when life seems to be chaos.

Honestly, I don't know where to go from here. I don't know what to do with all of these thoughts, other than sharing them with you in hopes that they had a positive effect on your life...That my voice, my words make a difference.


What are your honest thoughts? Is there a point, or two, that I made that you commiserate with? Tell me in the comments below.

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To The Nursing Major During The Hardest Week Of The Year

I know that no grade can possibly prove what kind of nurse you will be. I know that no assignment will showcase your compassion. I know that no amount of bad days will ever take away the empathy inside of you that makes you an exceptional nurse.


To the Nursing Major During Finals Week,

I know you're tired, I know you're stressed, and I know you feel like you can't go on. I know that no part of this seems fair, and I know you are by far the biggest critic of yourself. I know that you've thought about giving up. I know that you feel alone. I know that you wonder why in the world you chose one of the hardest college majors, especially on the days it leaves you feeling empty and broken.

But, I also know that you love nursing school. I know your eyes light up when you're with patients, and I know your heart races when you think of graduation. I know that you love the people that you're in school with, like truly, we're-all-in-this-together, family type of love. I know that you look at the older nurses with admiration, just hoping and praying that you will remain that calm and composed one day. I know that every time someone asks what your college major is that you beam with pride as you tell them it's nursing, and I know that your heart skips a beat knowing that you are making a difference.

I know that no grade can possibly prove what kind of nurse you will be. I know that no assignment will showcase your compassion. I know that a failed class doesn't mean you aren't meant to do this. I know that a 'C' on a test that you studied so. dang. hard. for does not mean that you are not intelligent. I know that no amount of bad days will ever take away the empathy inside of you that makes you an exceptional nurse.

I know that nursing school isn't fair. I know you wish it was easier. I know that some days you can't remember why it's worth it. I know you want to go out and have fun. I know that staying up until 1:00 A.M. doing paperwork, only to have to be up and at clinicals before the sun rises is not fair. I know that studying this much only to be failing the class is hard. I know you wish your friends and family understood. I know that this is difficult.

Nursing school isn't glamorous, with the white lab coat and stethoscope. Nursing school is crying, randomly and a lot. Nursing school is exhaustion. Nursing school is drinking so much coffee that you lose track. Nursing school is being so stressed that you can't eat. Nursing school is four cumulative finals jam-packed into one week that is enough to make you go insane.

But, nursing school is worth it. I know that when these assignments are turned in and finals are over, that you will find the motivation to keep going. I know that one good day of making a difference in a patient's life is worth a hundred bad days of nursing school.

Keep hanging in there, nursing majors. It'll all be worth it— this I know, for sure.

So, if you have a nursing major in your life, hug them and tell them that you're proud of them. Nursing school is tough, nursing school is scary, and nursing school is overwhelming; but a simple 'thank-you' from someone we love is all we need to keep going.


A third-year nursing student who knows

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To The High School Graduating Seniors

I know you're ready, but be ready.



I am not going to say anything about senioritis because I was ready to get out of there and I'm sure you are too; however, in your last months living at home you should take advantage of the luxuries you will not have in a college dorm. The part of college seen in movies is great, the rest of it is incredibly inconvenient. It is better to come to terms with this While you still have plenty of time to prepare and enjoy yourself.

Perhaps one of the most annoying examples is the shower. Enjoy your hot, barefoot showers now because soon enough you will have no water pressure and a drain clogged with other people's hair. Enjoy touching your feet to the floor in the shower and the bathroom because though it seems weird, it's a small thing taken away from you in college when you have to wear shoes everywhere.

Enjoy your last summer with your friends. After this summer, any free time you take is a sacrifice. For example, if you want to go home for the summer after your freshman year and be with your friends, you have to sacrifice an internship. If you sacrifice an internship, you risk falling behind on your resume, and so on. I'm not saying you can't do that, but it is not an easy choice anymore.

Get organized. If you're like me you probably got good grades in high school by relying on your own mind. You think I can remember what I have to do for tomorrow. In college, it is much more difficult to live by memory. There are classes that only meet once or twice a week and meeting and appointments in between that are impossible to mentally keep straight. If you do not yet have an organizational system that works for you, get one.

I do not mean to sound pessimistic about school. College is great and you will meet a lot of people and make a lot of memories that will stick with you for most of your life. I'm just saying be ready.

-A freshman drowning in work

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