Dear Dad,
I'm not really even sure where to begin. You have been there for me in every conceivable way since the day I came into this world. Sure, we argue, but I like to think it's because we're a lot alike. Every kid grows up idolizing one or both of their parents; you are my super hero, my confidant--the man who sat through hours and hours of 'Pete's Dragon' on repeat. You have washed and fixed my hair, taken me to dance practice, theatre practice, choir practice, wiped away plenty of tears, cultivated my love of art and literature, listened to countless monologues of my teenage woes, and you always give the best hugs.
You have loved me through every dream I have ever concocted. You don't know how much it means to know that my hero supports me in pursuing what I love.
You have taught me so much in our adventure of nineteen years and those lessons have followed me 7 1/2 hours to Missouri. Your advice and wisdom travel state borders--wohoo! From you, I have learned to never give up even when everyone around me tells me I can't do it. I have learned to not take to heart the things people will say about me because I'll never know what it's like to be them until I walk a mile in their shoes. I have learned unconditional love because raising me, I know there were plenty of times when you had to remember just how much unconditional meant. I know your life has not been an easy path to walk, but just know that you've taught me perseverance because of it. Lastly, I have learned that 'Forrest Gump' is a cinematic masterpiece and life really is "like a box of chocolates." I may not have known what life I was going to get, but I sure am glad it was the one with you as a Dad.
I strive to one day be as caring, generous, and witty as you (and also manage to CrossFit 5 times a week). As I continue my journey through college, just remember that your advice never fell on deaf ears. I am becoming the woman I am today in a large part because of you and the way you raised me. There will be times that I will mess up and question this whole "becoming an adult" thing, just remember that unconditional love in those times. You once told me that "nothing ever comes easy for the Vadneys" which might be true, but we sure do know how to give 'em a fight, don't we? I love you, Dad. Thanks for always being my hero.
Love,
Reece