13 Things You Shouldn't Do When You're In Your Feels

13 Things You Shouldn't Do When You're In Your Feels

Don't do anything drastic when you're sad, wait until you're you again.


More often than not, we let our decisions get the best of us. We make rash decisions when we're angry or when we're incredibly sad. If you're like me, you often come to regret a lot of these decisions. Sometimes, even though it's hard, you need to take a deep breath and think it all out. Better yet, just wait until you sleep it off and figure out if you still feel the same in the morning.

In any case, here are 13 things you definitely shouldn't rashly decide on when you're deep in your feels.

1. Cut your hair. 

Don't do it. You might grow to hate that short hair in a couple of days. You should really think about it before you do it. Your hair is sacred.

2. Text that guy. 

Abort mission.

3. Binge eat or starve yourself. 

We all love food but don't let your feels mess with your eating habits. Stay healthy!

4. Watch sad movies. 

You'll just dig yourself into a deeper hole.

5. Shove chocolate down your mouth. 

We all love chocolate but honestly... you can only handle so many chocolate bars before you break out and feel worse.

6. Listen to sad songs. 

This will just exacerbate your sad mood.

7. Overthink. 

I am the worst over-thinker in the world so I definitely can't talk but trust me, don't make it harder on yourself.

8. Self-harm. 

Please get help if it gets to this point. I know it's hard but look out for yourself.

9. Pluck your eyebrows. 

You're literally asking for over-plucked, insanely thin eyebrows.

10. Bite your nails. 

Do yourself a favor and keep your hands away from your mouth.

11. Get a tattoo. 

Wait until you've actually thought it out and decided you actually want one.

12. Drink. 

Don't binge drink just just because you're sad. It won't make it any better.

13. Do drugs. 

Once again, it will just make everything worse. Don't do anything until you're in the right head space.

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The Truth About Young Marriage

Different doesn't mean wrong.

When I was a kid, I had an exact picture in my mind of what my life was going to look like. I was definitely not the kind of girl who would get married young, before the age of 25, at least.

And let me tell you, I was just as judgmental as that sentence sounds.

I could not wrap my head around people making life-long commitments before they even had an established life. It’s not my fault that I thought this way, because the majority opinion about young marriage in today’s society is not a supportive one. Over the years, it has become the norm to put off marriage until you have an education and an established career. Basically, this means you put off marriage until you learn how to be an adult, instead of using marriage as a foundation to launch into adulthood.

When young couples get married, people will assume that you are having a baby, and they will say that you’re throwing your life away — it’s inevitable.

It’s safe to say that my perspective changed once I signed my marriage certificate at the age of 18. Although marriage is not always easy and getting married at such a young age definitely sets you up for some extra challenges, there is something to be said about entering into marriage and adulthood at the same time.

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Getting married young does not mean giving up your dreams. It means having someone dream your dreams with you. When you get lost along the way, and your dreams and goals seem out of reach, it’s having someone there to point you in the right direction and show you the way back. Despite what people are going to tell you, it definitely doesn’t mean that you are going to miss out on all the experiences life has to offer. It simply means that you get to share all of these great adventures with the person you love most in the world.

And trust me, there is nothing better than that. It doesn’t mean that you are already grown up, it means that you have someone to grow with.

You have someone to stick with you through anything from college classes and changing bodies to negative bank account balances.

You have someone to sit on your used furniture with and talk about what you want to do and who you want to be someday.

Then, when someday comes, you get to look back on all of that and realize what a blessing it is to watch someone grow. Even after just one year of marriage, I look back and I am incredibly proud of my husband. I’m proud of the person he has become, and I’m proud of what we have accomplished together. I can’t wait to see what the rest of our lives have in store for us.

“You can drive at 16, go to war at 18, drink at 21, and retire at 65. So who can say what age you have to be to find your one true love?" — One Tree Hill
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