I am nowhere near ready to have a child or anywhere near having a child, but once I do there are many lessons I want to teach my future daughter. I want her to be strong willed, independent, doesn't settle for anything less than she deserves, and someone that she loves. I want my future daughter to love herself more than she will ever love any boy, more than any boy will ever love her, self love is so important and I want to stress that to her.
My future daughter will be strong willed, she will be determined to do what she wants even though other people will go against her and doubt her. I want her to be herself, someone that will stand up for herself in a time of need. I want her to know that she can be anything that she wants to be as long as she puts her mind to it. Once she puts her mind to it, she will get it done whether everyone says she can't or not.
I want her to be independent, she shouldn't have to depend on some stupid boy to tell her she's great but, rather herself. I want her to do things for herself and do things by herself sometimes, discover the world, see the bigger picture. I want my future daughter to be able to be the person she needs when she wants to be picked back up, of course I will always be there to help her but, I want her to not depend on a ton of people more than she has to.
My future daughter should not settle for anything less than she deserves. She should not settle for the crappy boy who ignores her and hurts her, she should not settle for crappy food or movies. She should find what she deserves and pursue it rather than take what's less. I don't want her to take what's less, but rather wait for what is more and run with it.
I want her to love herself and see beyond all her beauty that she will have and realize that she will be much more than just some girl. I want her to dance around in her room laughing in the mirror and be happy with herself, not crying herself to sleep each night. I will be there for her when she does that, but I want her to know that she is loved and will always be.
Lastly, I want my future daughter to know that I will always love her and help her back on her feet in a time of need. I want her to know that she will make mistakes and she will learn her lesson the hard way sometimes. I want her to know that her mistakes will not make me love her any less but, rather make me help her out more. I want my future daughter to be anything she wants, but I really want her to be happy. She will be loved by many for her whole life and I never want her to have to worry about that.