Yes, There Are Benefits To Long Distance Relationships
Start writing a post
popular

Yes, There Are Benefits To Long Distance Relationships

it's really hard work, but it's worth it.

3631
Yes, There Are Benefits To Long Distance Relationships
Author's photo

Long distance is really hard. I'm not going to tell you it's easy or romantic, because it's really not. It's hard work and commitment. But when you do it with the right person, it really only makes your relationship stronger.


1. Your time is valued more

You both know you might be under a time crunch to be with each other, if one of you is only home for the weekend, but this pressure actually makes you prioritize your time together more. You cherish your alone time more than you would if you saw each other every single day and make the most of the time you have.


2. You have so much to talk about!

My boyfriend and I don't really Skype, we mainly talk over the phone or text, so of course we talk throughout the week about important things. But when we see each other we have so much to catch up on. You finally get to hear all the stories that would have taken too long over the phone, you get to hear about their crazy roommate or their wild adventures on the weekend, it's like meeting another side of your partner and it's really interesting. If you saw each other every day, you might run out of topics to talk about...


3. You both get to be independent

In my opinion, in order for a relationship to be healthy and work for both parties, you have to be your own person. When couples are completely dependable on each other, it's not always the best thing. Being in a long distance relationship means that you get to create your own identity and have your own experiences and become your own person. And then when you see your significant other again you get to share that side of you with them! Then your independent selves compliment each other instead of conflict with one another.

4. You learn to communicate more clearly

It's very important in a long distance relationship to make clear what your expectations are, and have a plan for how you are going to visit each other and such. When you know that talking to each other is important, It stresses the importance of communication. And once you get the hang of it, communicating, what some people say is most important in any relationship, comes easier to you both.


5. You learn patience

I am horrible at being patient. I hate standing in lines at theme parks, waiting for my food, I'm just the worst. it wasn't until being in a long distance relationship that I discovered just how important it was. If you are constantly thinking about how much you miss your significant other, then you're just going to make yourself depressed. Telling myself, 'okay 2 more weeks until I get to see him, I can do that', then moving on with the rest of my life, made having patience easier. The busier I was, the more distracted I was, and the faster the time went by. I'm so grateful for it now.

(us in Ithaca on Halloween!)

6. You realize that if you can do long distance, you can do anything...

Like I said before, I am not trying to convince you that long distance is the best way to have a relationship, or that it's super easy! All I'm saying is that if you're doing it with the right person, you'll know. Bumps in the road can cause a lot of second guessing on both ends, but ultimately, if you love each other, and practice healthy ways to maintain your commitment, nothing can stop you. It shows you how much you mean to the other person if they're willing to go on this crazy ride with you. I hate long distance, but I'm grateful for what it has taught me and will continue to teach me. I've never felt more connected to my boyfriend and more confident in our relationship.


Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

56360
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

36295
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less
Adulting

Unlocking Lake People's Secrets: 15 Must-Knows!

There's no other place you'd rather be in the summer.

958214
Group of joyful friends sitting in a boat
Haley Harvey

The people that spend their summers at the lake are a unique group of people.

Whether you grew up going to the lake, have only recently started going, or have only been once or twice, you know it takes a certain kind of person to be a lake person. To the long-time lake people, the lake holds a special place in your heart, no matter how dirty the water may look.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Top 10 Reasons My School Rocks!

Why I Chose a Small School Over a Big University.

188204
man in black long sleeve shirt and black pants walking on white concrete pathway

I was asked so many times why I wanted to go to a small school when a big university is so much better. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure a big university is great but I absolutely love going to a small school. I know that I miss out on big sporting events and having people actually know where it is. I can't even count how many times I've been asked where it is and I know they won't know so I just say "somewhere in the middle of Wisconsin." But, I get to know most people at my school and I know my professors very well. Not to mention, being able to walk to the other side of campus in 5 minutes at a casual walking pace. I am so happy I made the decision to go to school where I did. I love my school and these are just a few reasons why.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments